Some advice, men when posting pictures. Try not to look like a serial killer. Smile! And post pictures where women can actually see your face.
***NOTE*** I don't mind meeting new people and making friends but please don't contact me if your just looking to "hook up". I know in today's society most people forget that its a good thing to take it slow and don't lie about it because I usually find out through your actions if you are for real or not.
Girls: want to control the man in their life.
GROWN WOMEN: know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls: yell at you for not calling them.
GROWN WOMEN: are too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls: are afraid to be alone.
GROWN WOMEN: revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls: ignore the good guys.
GROWN WOMEN: ignore the bad guys.
Girls: make you come home.
GROWN WOMEN: make you "WANT" to come home.
Girls: leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
GROWN WOMEN: make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.
Girls: worry about not being pretty and /or good enough for their man.
GROWN WOMEN: know that they are pretty and or good enough for any man.
Girls: try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
GROWN WOMEN: realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special and goes out with her own friends.
Girls: think a guy crying is weak.
GROWN WOMEN: offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls: want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
GROWN WOMEN: 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.
Girls: get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
GROWN WOMEN: know that was just one man.
Girls: fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
GROWN WOMEN: know that sometimes the one's you love, don't always love you back and move on, without bitterness.
I'M A (GROWN WOMAN) ANY QUESTIONS?????
*** GROWN MEN ****
boys: call you constantly asking where you are.
GROWN MEN: will call just because
boys: still live at home with their mommies
GROWN MEN: visit their mothers whenever possible
boys: only give you flowers on special occasions. (Valentine's, birthday's)
GROWN MEN: know how much you love flowers and give them to you at random.
boys: will ask you to loan them money.
GROWM MEN: have their priorities straight and therefore budget their money wisely.
boys: will come over after watching his favorite sports game.
GROWN MEN: will realize it's just a sports game and actually have a life.
boys: will occasionally stare at girls.
GROWN MEN: make you feel like you're the only woman there.
boys: would rather play video games on a lazy afternoon.
GROWN MEN: would rather play with women on a lazy afternoon.
boys: challenge every man who stares at their girl to a fight.
GROWN MEN: smile and enjoy knowing they are with the most beautiful woman in the room.
boys: think they know what women want
GROWN MEN: accept the fact that they don't know..lol...
***NOTE*** Men on POF have been asking me what am I looking for...Well here it is...I'm looking for a man that lives a healthy life style. I don't eat fast food and I try to keep in shape so I'm asking the same. I'm looking for a man that wouldn't have a problem with me being that best person i could be!! A man that would want to grow and learn in life along side me. Friends first possibly grow into something more later.. I'm looking for a guy that's out of the ordinary...Someone who thinks outside the box!! Chemistry is very important to me...We both have to feel it. I need to be wowed!!! I need a partner in crime ..lol....
***NOTE*** If I'm not interested please don't take it personal. You may not be right for me but that doesn't mean you're not right for someone else.. :D
***NOTE*** I love to laugh... so if you can make me laugh that is a definite plus!!!! Really don't care what people think I love to be silly!!