Some advice, men when posting pictures. Try not to look like a serial killer. Smile! And post pictures where women can actually see your face.
My intent: is to have fun and live life to the fullest with friends and a parnter without the emotional stress
***NOTE*** I don't mind meeting new people and making friends but please don't contact me if your just looking to "hook up". I know in today's society most people forget that its a good thing to take it slow and don't lie about it because I usually find out through your actions if you are for real or not.
Girls: want to control the man in their life.
GROWN WOMEN: know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.
Girls: yell at you for not calling them.
GROWN WOMEN: are too busy to realize you hadn't.
Girls: are afraid to be alone.
GROWN WOMEN: revel in it-using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls: ignore the good guys.
GROWN WOMEN: ignore the bad guys.
Girls: make you come home.
GROWN WOMEN: make you "WANT" to come home.
Girls: leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans.
GROWN WOMEN: make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits.
Girls: worry about not being pretty and /or good enough for their man.
GROWN WOMEN: know that they are pretty and or good enough for any man.
Girls: try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends).
GROWN WOMEN: realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special and goes out with her own friends.
Girls: think a guy crying is weak.
GROWN WOMEN: offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls: want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
GROWN WOMEN: 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.
Girls: get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
GROWN WOMEN: know that was just one man.
Girls: fall in love and chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'.
GROWN WOMEN: know that sometimes the one's you love, don't always love you back and move on, without bitterness.
I'M A (GROWN WOMAN) ANY QUESTIONS?????
*** GROWN MEN ****
boys: call you constantly asking where you are.
GROWN MEN: will call just because
boys: still live at home with their mommies
GROWN MEN: visit their mothers whenever possible
boys: only give you flowers on special occasions. (Valentine's, birthday's)
GROWN MEN: know how much you love flowers and give them to you at random.
boys: will ask you to loan them money.
GROWM MEN: have their priorities straight and therefore budget their money wisely.
boys: will come over after watching his favorite sports game.
GROWN MEN: will realize it's just a sports game and actually have a life.
boys: will occasionally stare at girls.
GROWN MEN: make you feel like you're the only woman there.
boys: would rather play video games on a lazy afternoon.
GROWN MEN: would rather play with women on a lazy afternoon.
boys: challenge every man who stares at their girl to a fight.
GROWN MEN: smile and enjoy knowing they are with the most beautiful woman in the room.
boys: think they know what women want
GROWN MEN: accept the fact that they don't know..lol...
***NOTE*** Men on POF have been asking me what am I looking for...Well here it is..I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm looking for a partnership, a partner that lives a healthy life style. I don't eat fast food and I try to keep in shape so I'm asking the same. I'm looking for a partner that wouldn't have a problem with me being that best person i could be!! A partner that would want to grow and learn in life along side me. Friends first possibly grow into something more later..I want to have fun and live without the emotional stress a toxic relationship brings. I'm looking for a guy that's out of the ordinary...Someone who thinks outside the box!! I need a partner in crime ..lol....
***NOTE*** If I'm not interested please don't take it personal. You may not be right for me but that doesn't mean you're not right for someone else.. :D
***NOTE*** I love to laugh... so if you can make me laugh that is a definite plus!!!! Really don't care what people think I love to be silly!!