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*Sparks are wonderful, but if they never transform into flames - they're worth nothing more than cinder*
I'm looking for a long-term, lifetime partner/companion, someone open, honest, humble non-complicated, silly, fun, real, chivalrous, down to earth, intelligent, spiritual and with class, someone I ... and they ... can compliment and share this life with. Life's good, I enjoy mine very much, but I'm not ashamed in any sense of admitting that I would enjoy it a little more if shared with someone. I never expected to be single at this stage of life (though it was my choice for several years), nor do I find it 100% fulfilling, it's not dissatisfying in the least , but not 100% fulfilling. I genuinely miss that best friend role that even your closest friends can't fill (best friend, lover, roommate, partner, playmate and buddy - that person I talk to countless times a day because everything that happens is something we want to tell each other about). That peace in knowing who I share my life with, kiss good morning and hold each night, the one that I know I'll grow old with, the person who's eyes I look into and see nothing but spirit and sheer love - their love for me and mine for them. However, the only way to find him is by dating, and rather than despise it, which I used to, I've come to enjoy it and accept it as something that causes laughter, fun experiences, making new friends and enjoyable times (sometimes seriously odd and not so enjoyable times lol), but there is a purpose for it - so I don't promise exclusivity right out of the starting gate - 2 people developing into that is a process that requires time - and not everyone you meet or date is the person that there could be a "might" with. However, I'm also not professional speed dater, and I don't consider intimacy of any kind a sporting event, that comes last. If I come across someone that I think I click really well with, I'll concentrate on them rather than dating other's simultaneously, but that doesn't mean insta-relationship (add water and mix), those scenarios don't work. It simply means that I know what my long-term goal is, so I'd like to see what it may or may not have the potential of possibly developing into one day.
Me? I enjoy going out and doing all sorts of things (I have an eclectic and extremely diverse personality - see my interests). I love live music of nearly any kind, being out in public and having fun - food, drinks whatever the night, or day, calls for .. but also greatly enjoy the comforts of being home, eating, playing with my dog, cuddling up and watching movies. Sometimes just taking a moonlight walk, or sitting by a pond for hours taking in nature, talking and enjoying the air is a great way of spending time as well. I know NOTHING about sports of any kind, nor do I participate in them (honest is good right? hehe) - but I am the type of woman who would definitely help someone get ready for their friends to come over and watch a few games --- and then make myself busy with something I prefer or enjoy. :o) I can dress up and feel comfortable in just about any environment, from black tie to sweats, but I do prefer casual and comfortable when presented with a choice. Dress clothes is what I need to do for my 9-5 - I'm really comfortable in a casual look outside of work - and am known to love a cute funky outfit (I definitely beat to my own drum). I've got an EXTREMELY ROMANTIC (if something develops), playful, warmhearted, caring, uncomplicated, genuine personality - and sometimes I'm also downright silly and goofy - and welcome those qualities in others. :o) On the flip side, I also have a very deep and serious side as well - I enjoy long talks about life, the universe, spirituality, multi-dimensions and most any other deep conversation that comes up outside of politics .. I don't do politics. I'm not of the belief that having all of the same interests is a make or break scenario ... sure it helps to have many of the same interests, but opposites certainly attract as well - and there's nothing wrong with respecting someone else's interests, if not interested in them yourself. Romance, romance, romance!!!!! --- lots of exclamation points. It might be the year 2014, but I refuse to believe that romance has been replaced by technology and woman's lib. The art of "courting" "wooing" "chivalry" surprises, adventures and imagination being used are a few of the many things that far too many men have forgotten, or far too many women have stopped expecting or appreciating. I appreciate it immensely and become disappointed without it (inside information fellas). :o) A man who knows how to treat a woman, knows how to get and keep a woman (and vice versa of course).
Words of wisdom to all those who find relationships of any kind head-aching or complicated (why complicate life)?
If you miss someone, call them ... If you want to get together, invite them ... If you want to be understood, explain, If you have questions, ask ... If you don't like something, say it ... If you like something, state it, If you want something, ask for it, if you really like or love someone, tell it. We just have one life - keep it simple. Raw open honesty and communication, even if you're afraid of being hurt, embarrassed, scared of being ejected or don't want to upset someone, is the only way to avoid a complicated scenario.
All of my pictures are pretty recent w/dates on them - and my profile is long and detailed ... because there's a lid for every pot - if if there's something about me (I was real, open and honest) that makes you think my lid won't fit your pot - why waste time contacting me? Please have current pictures of yourself as well, and If you'd like to know more - feel free to ask ... I'd be happy to respond. I'm a wide open book, as long as I get to choose who's reading *wink*.
Best of luck in finding whatever, or whomever, you're looking for.
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I'm interested in meeting White men only. I'm not interested in the biker dude type, men covered in tattoos, or men using this site looking for sex (why waste anyone's time - it's best to be upfront and honest).
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