So there is something that I have noticed about myself lately and I'm not sure I like it...I've been on POF for awhile now, and I'm realized that I read profile and judge ppl...maybe that is what online dating is about but I really don't like it...I will read a profile and say, "no, not for me" but do I really know that person, they are just words, and yes maybe a lil of how they see themselves but not exactly what I would see if I actually took the time to get to know that person...its really rubbing me the wrong way
6 April 2014 Update***So my time in Kuwait comes to an end this summer...My kids will go backpacking thru Europe this in July, I'm hoping, then that's it...sigh they are all grown and ready to conquer the world...I've had this profile up since they entered high school and haven't really found "her"...lol needless to say I'm a lil nervous, and unsure but we shall c what happens next...I am still lookin for a Mrs. Williams but I need a friend much more than I need a wife...would luv someone that luvs to travel and funny, I don't know where the military will send me next but it really doesn't matter...so after Europe I would luv to hit mexico and jamacia in 2014 maybe a week at each, I consider myself open-minded lifestyle wise and would prefer someone of the same mindset...so any friendly ppl out there that luv to laugh, travel and is open-minded come say hi and lets see if a friendship awaits
Now something that has been a issue lately...I do not own a house and I really have no desire to do so...I luv horses, I luv dogs and I really want a ranch, no smaller than 10 acres, 20 acres being ideal...since I am no where close to being able to afford a ranch, I rent...now I am cool with buying a house to build equity with a plan to get a ranch lata, but that has to b the plan for me to consider it, just fyi
I would really like to think of someone and just smile again
I just want be in love...I want to be free to me be....I want the "who I am" to be exactly what someone else always wanted...I don't want u to need me, I simply want u to want me....I want to earn my place in your heart....To b that oasis, that place you go to feel happy when everything else is making you sad. That should not be something you give to me, that should be something I earn every day by being the best me I can be.
u know I read a lot of profile and so many women talk about men with no job, or car, living with their mom...and I guess I can understand a lil of that, i mean alot of ppl suffered setbacks recently, but i get the point the women are talkin a more longterm situation....I just have a hard time believing it, but I guess its akin to women not dating men that work at MCD's but expect men to b ok with dating them when they work at a similar place
Ok, i do have one question...I have one thing in my life that i luv to do, and when i tell women upfront they run for the hills, yet if i take them out 3 times then tell them no one has a problem with it, they all either wanna try it or love that about me and always wanted to do it...i dont get it, it drives me nuts...1. i want a woman who knows what she wants from the get go, and 2 i feel like i'm lyin until i confess but whats my options...so if anyone can answer y women do that, i would luv to know
I'll be honest, i've met a lot of great womn on here, and i thank you all for your time and attention. What i havent found is my woman, but dont worry boo i haven't given up. I'm turning over rocks, sailing the 7 seas, climbing the highest peaks. Your knight is on his way, and i will slay any dragon to rescue u, so u can rescue me.
I need someone that's into living ready to enjoy life, who doesn't need a map or how-to guide. Let's color outside the lines.
Well lets dive right into it. I have 3 great kids, my youngest being 15. I've had the fortune of having them live with me the last few years. I had to give up alot to make that happen and i dont regret any of it. These have been the best years of my life. As they grow up and get ready for lives of their own i think i'm gonna be really depressed when they leave, dont know if i'm quite ready for that. However with all that being said, i would rather not go back to raising small children. I understand that a lonliness is coming, but also an opportunity. I love to travel and i'm hoping to find someone to do that with. Someone to make a life so great with that my kids will tell all their friends about how happy we are, and the things we do for each other. Together we will make the world jealous. Everyone will say, i want a love like theirs. I think that experiences feed the soul, and i want mine to be well nourished, so lets fly to italy to go antique shopping, mind you, it will not be first class. But why not just go. And thursday let's call in sick, ride out to the beach and just be in love. I dont think i'm asking for much, i'm just asking for you. You would think by now i would have learned how to be in love, but i haven't. I've only learned to never stop trying.
If it takes more than a "hello" to engage your conversation etiquette then i'm the wrong man for you. I don't know you, that was the whole point of saying hello. To try and change it.
I’ve held on tight………enough
I’ve worked hard…………enough
I’ve loved you more than……….enough
I’ve waited for you long…………enough
Now I’m ready to be loved……….enough
I’m ready to be held tight…….enough
I’m ready to be kissed………enough
I’m ready to be…..enough
I luv family vacations, my children are getting older but we still go somewhere every yr, if thats a problem no need in even speaking.