I'm a hopeless romantic who has a good head on her shoulders. I live a balanced life between healthy eating and the occasional splurge, and staying active but knowing when I need to rest. I'm playful and rarely offended around blunt conversation with lewdness, but classy and enjoy going deep with conversations when appropriate.
Although I believe it's not so much the activity but which version of ourselves we bring to the activity that makes it enjoyable, I do love to write and have published some of my work. I also love to dance, go to shows/live music, museums, cook, hike, play tennis, shoot hoops, and partake in retail therapy from time to time. I love kids and try to see my niece and nephew often, but most likely won't have any of my own.
I live by myself and am not visibly queer as a woman who happens to be TRANSGENDER, but I am very out in all aspects of my life and prefer that the person I am with is also. I'm close with family and am a loyal friend who goes the extra mile. I read people quickly and cherish the depth that authentic living offers, in addition to how it all ties into how one takes care of their physical, emotional and spiritual health. Although I have a good career, I define success not on paper but through positive living and through actions such as compassion and thoughtfulness while being good about one's own truth and boundaries. I find people who have done the work and have a practice to keep themselves centered to be incredibly attractive.
I'm passionate and take pleasure in being tender and loving, romantic and sweet. I'm a girly girl and I don't care so much what my partner does for their profession or hobbies so long as they are transparent and respectful, honest and willing to communicate honestly.