I'm in a really good place in my life right now, where I would be adding to the relationship I enter rather than relying on it to make my life better. And being aware of that is truly empowering.
I could talk about how I enjoy photography, cars, sports/being active, the arts, music, family, friends, and the like, but I'm more interested in the core compatibilities that really make a relationship work in the long term.
I'm hoping to attract someone who is in a good place spiritually (not religiously), emotionally, and physically. Someone who loves himself enough to take care of his physical, emotional, and mental health.
I don't want and expect perfection, or a perfect fit. I think what people call imperfections are sometimes the things we miss most about someone when they are away. All relationships and interactions take responsibility from both parties in order for it to be enjoyable, and having very similar interests doesn't necessarily result in a relationship devoid of occasional disagreements. I think the beauty is in how a couple handles their conflicts, rather than wanting to only smooth things over, move onto make-up sex as quickly as possible, only to have things "feel" good again without really addressing the issue at hand.
Friends who know me hear me often say: "the biggest sex organ is the brain." It is very difficult for me to be with someone who is sexually inflexible and intolerant of variety. The person has to be open minded and self-aware in order for that department to work. That being said, I love affection, cuddling, but can also appreciate a crazy day of fun activities and excitement, and a person who knows how to balance and enjoy both.
Nothing is a bigger turn on than curiosity, passion for truth and authenticity, and willingness to embrace the moment. Someone who is playful and in touch with their inner self, comfortable with themselves and in their own skin, such as dancing and going out of their comfort zone or being silly and connecting with their inner child. A good balance between geekiness and social graces.
I love and appreciate self expression of all kinds, and the beauty that results in people who are immersed in the moment. I love meeting people who are aware of things going on in the world and see things beyond their scope of life and what their individual life entails...people who see the bigger picture of what's going on and how things are symbiotically connected...
I'm the type of girl that would very much prefer a week at Esalen doing a spiritual workshop of self discovery than going to Vegas for a weekend, although I've had some insanely good times in Vegas and other wild places and love to travel.
If there's anything else you want to know, please ask! I hope you found what I had to say interesting and good luck on your search ^_^