Men who endlessly text you are the ones"- my dad
I'm on this pof just as a man is, to say I am single, and that's all. We live in a modern technological world so why not use the great new ways of knowing people?
I really am surprised by some men here who think the women here have some sort of " red light district" aura about us. That's just not right to assume that about women. I'm sure many women use this place just like that though, and the men too, but in my case it's a place to hopefully meet intellectually balanced people for multi faceted connections. It can be similar interests, cultural similarities, maybe work related connections , maybe love. Many men here write very directly, "no drama!"
Well, I say..and what's that? There are good dramas, theater, concerts, opera you know..
There are even men who are "separated" who write sentences like this,"no drama, no games, I'm real, life is short" This is comedy for me, the irony....
People have to remember a relationship is about 2 people. If there are arguments then it's time for a change, either together or apart. When you say, no drama!, it sounds very patriarchal. "Life is short!" That's for sure..ha
It's strange when men ask me here" what are you looking for..?" I just think, "What does that mean? Are there. 5 types of men out there?...or Is it some code word? Also, if they start out by saying,"You're sexy", I'm just imagining what sort of uncomfortable first date that would be. So, well, I have to say.. i'm a "going out on dates to get to know a person" type of person..to talk really so we need to have a conversation that's not solely about my looks or yours.. Yawn..
So..for me I am looking for a stable and sane relationship but fun as well. Ideally it's a living together situation...eventually, because life is short ha...but that takes time and finding the right person is a process. In the meantime, as I said, we have similar interests.
Another topic here is all these "playing games" men are talking about here..men say, "I'm not into playing games!"
That just means the woman is having doubts about you so it's best to just respect her space and better to just move on. It goes for both sides, I too have to do the same thing if someone is not interested in me or "not interested any more".. So it's best to keep things emotionally light in the beginning. Speaking of light, I tend to prefer
a slim man and I prefer a long nose instead of short. I don't like tatoos, motorcycles or USA football tv watching potato chip lounging very much.
Anyway...About me.. Hmm.. Still here??
Well...I went to RISD, an art college in Rhode Island... Of course you say.. Ha
I grew up in Villanova Pa
I was born in Chile and came to USA when I was 2 years old. Maybe you know about world politics..:) that would be just hunky dory.
I speak Spanish and learned when I was 9 and I can understand the jokes too.. So jaja.. I used to travel a lot to Chile and have also traveled to other countries as well.
I avoid TV but I like a well made film, documentary, book, theater or music presentation... Almost any genre..
My mom is half German and grew up in Germany but I am learning German now...a long story..
My dad speaks French because his mother is Belgian... I don't speak French.. Another long story..I want to learn it after I learn German though.
All in all, ask me questions and I can answer them..
I'm available, interactive and virtual, here, for now.