If you take the chance to know me, you will find I'm a pretty good woman, a solid friend, and a great mom. I'm genuine & sincere in what I say and do. I believe commitment, trust, and honesty are very important in any type of relationship. It is very important to me, and who I'm with.
For me a relationship starts with a friendship, mutual respect and trust. With those, you eliminate doubt, jealousy, the issues a good relationship doesn’t need. I have nothing to hide and nothing to lie about, I stand behind everything I say or do, and I take responsibility for it right or wrong. To me it’s about being an adult and if you have to hide things or lie to me about it, you probably shouldn’t be doing it. I believe that when you are committed to someone, love is just as much a decision as it is a feeling you have. Communication is very important, and I think you can work through almost anything if you can express yourself and talk to each other.
It’s important you like kids, as I have two respectful, easy and wonderful kids who I love with my being, their happiness is important to me. They are now teenagers and are starting to have their own interests and activities and much less time for mom. They are spreading their wings and that leaves me with the ability to find someone of my own to spend time with.
My motto and what I live by is SAY IT, MEAN IT, DO IT. I am looking for a man who means what he says and says what he means. A man who knows what he wants, and has the confidence to find it. Someone who will make me a priority, is loyal and committed to pursuing his dreams and goals while also creating some of our own. Someone who is happy with his own life and can therefore be available to me as well. We have all had experiences in life, both good and bad; I ask that you’ve grown, learned and healed from the bad and that you recognize the good and want more of it. I recognize people have issues in their life so I'm not freaked by someone with 'baggage'. It's not how many times you get knocked down in life...but how many times you have gotten back up which really counts. Everyone has problems it's how we deal with them that makes the difference.
I think it’s important to always keep the spark alive. I am an affectionate person, I like to hold hands, love to kiss, cuddle and laugh. I want you to know that you are special to me. I look forward to and will put in the effort that building a good relationship takes.
I have a good job and have accomplished a lot in life. While I think it’s important to be well balanced and responsible, my work will never be more important then my relationship or my family. I won’t come home grumpy and take it out on anyone. I truly have a great life and all that is missing is that special someone to spend the rest of it with. I enjoy just about everything I do and anywhere I go. I keep an open mind and am willing when it comes to trying anything new. I think a lot of life is, how you look at things and the attitude you choose to have about it.
There’s only so much you can write about yourself and what you want. I think it’s important to have the attraction, chemistry and feeling you get when you meet someone you like. Then spend some time getting to know and trust in the person they really are.
I’m hoping to find someone who has some of the same values and interest as I do. I’m hoping I will meet the man of my dreams, my best friend and exploring partner. There’s so much I still want to do. I know he’s out there, and I am pretty confident that I deserve him, so come and get me! lol... kidding, kind of ;-)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
How can anyone predict a first date?? I think anything is fun with the right person. To me, it all depends on the company.