Let me start by saying EVERYONE on here has preferences, if u say u dont u are lying!!! It all depends on the level of superficiality u have; whether u don't date fat people, handicapped/disabled, skinny, bald, poor, black, white, etc. These are all reflections of preferences or partialities or perhaps prejudices..(food for thought)...be real with yourself first before you judge me.
Although there may be thousands of people on this site, sifting through the fake rocks and finding a true gem = priceless!
If you are "damaged goods" and are unable to really put forth the effort or desire to date because that other chick hurt you, please note it wasn't me. It makes it hard for good women like myself. Healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls your life. A heart has to be open to receive and give love..
**Consistency is important to me. Whether you are a friend, a lover, a potential life partner. If you don't have time to nurture a friendship or relationship, don't bother! If you are a player, a man whore or a dog, please save me the heartache. Too bad you cant spot a bad person like how it is in nature (poisonous frogs are bright colors or venomous snakes have certain shaped eyes, predator animals look a certain way, then it would be easy to avoid the hurts right).. ALSO IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR HAVE A GIRLFRIEND LOOKING FOR THREESOMES-- DO NOT CONTACT ME!!!
*I do expect honesty, respect and commitment
* I believe in being presentable.
I get this question a lot: "What is my ethnicity/nationality?" - I am spanish, french,west african (3rd generation Senagalese), chinese, middle eastern
I look at everything in life as a lesson and opportunity for growth. So everything I learned from prior dating and relationships, has helped me realize exactly what I want in a relationship and what I dont want. I am an independent hard working female seeking friendships that can grow into something more serious eventually. I am originally a east coast girl at heart and have called several US locations home. I have a entrepreneural spirit and I am planning to start my own business within the next few years. I am also a writer (poetry, screenplays,books). I value family and friendships. I am self-taught; however, I believe knowledge is power, which explains why I am working on my 2nd degree currently in I.T. I am in insurance field, but I have a passion for leading and project management. I enjoy traveling, cooking, dancing, and being in good company. I tend to be pretty old school when it comes to dating and courting. I am seeking someone who has ethics, values and can be honest and committed. Affection and romance are very important to me in a relationship or dating. I am a thicker woman and I am seeking someone who can get to know me for my mind, body and spirit.
I am a very well-cultured person, I can adjust to any environment hanging with the most elite to feeding the homeless. I love music and I am a musician. I grew up in entertainment as my father is a jazz musician and singer. I love cooking and entertaining and would like to open a restaurant one day and my own TV cooking show. Note: I love spicy foods and many different cuisines, probably because of my mixed culture or just that it tastes good..lol. I am super health conscious and love organic foods. I do not eat pork or other unclean meats, etc. I am also heavily into fashion and design. I am a very ambitious and assertive person and I am seeking someone who is positive and is a true kindering spirit.