Starting to think it would be better if you want to know something then message me. Ask. Gives us something to talk about.
Wow, so apparently this is to short and I have to add some more to it. Lets see I am here because obviously I am single and seems like the best way to meet people since I am raising a child and working and rarely have time to go to clubs, bars, etc - not that I would want to anyways. Lets see if this is long enough now.
First dates are always stressful enough so I like the idea of some place not so stressful a coffee shop, book store, or something similar where we can sit and talk and enjoy each other's company without the myriad of interruptions that you would have in most restaurants. Now I am not saying that going out to dinner isn't a good first date but does it really give you an opportunity to talk and get to know each other? Or does it turn into more of one of those situations where every time you start talking the waiter or waitress ask if you would like another drink. :)