My friends would describe me as caring, kind hearted, smart, energetic, funny, sexy, a great listener, level headed, responsible and someone they want to grow old with. I'm honest (maybe to a fault), calm (life it too short to sweat the small things – sounds like a book), patient, opinionated, confident (to get where I have in life I needed to ‘just do it’), stubborn in my beliefs, sassy/sarcastic, sexy and curious. I'm very active and fit. Life is funny. Goofy is good sometimes. I laugh a lot. Often at myself.
I’m mostly retired – if the tenants call I must manage them. I’ve created a life where I don’t answer to an alarm clock and am getting pretty good with my tool box. I appreciate my time freedom everyday. I have goals and responsibilities that keep me excited about life and future.
I am comfortable in jeans or a gown (satin and lace) and anything in between. I can start my day gardening/painting walls to hosting a dress-up dinner for our friends that evening. You will always be proud to have me on your arm. Recently I helped make wine (from picking to bottling) and then went out for a lovely night on the town that night. Life has so much to offer.
Our intellectual (smart is so sexy) connection is paramount but I believe appealing to all of your senses is important. How we each smell, feel, touch, sound, ….. Good conversation is important – the ultimate connection.
I like hiking, cycling, roller blading, museums, farmer markets, yoga, cooking (socially sport), the outdoors, camping, dancing, reading, movies, spicy food, the gym, travel, the beach, feeling connected, holding hands, my family, my friends. Giving and receiving compliments!!!!
I am an analytical / kinesthetic thinker with lots of opinions and a good listener. Based on an Myers Briggs I am 54% Introvert, 46% Extrovert = very balanced. Bring me your thoughts and interests. I love to hear other people's stories/thoughts.
I live by The Four Agreements as much as possible and know that relationships take work and commitment. I buried most of my baggage years ago and am successfully single but far from being a feminist. I don't NEED you, I WANT you. Each day I grow wiser. I know relationships take respect, commitment, laughter, giving and receiving, supporting each other, making the world a better place for our each other. You need to feel good about yourself when you’re with me. Appreciation and respect with affection mixed in! You don’t have to read my mind, I know what I want and will ask for it.
I am a great traveler (do lots of it) but love my home too. A happy day is when I get to nurture my house, garden, my relationships and life partner. I can be the centre of the joke/life of the party and then comfortably ease out the door at the end of the night looking forward to the peace of my home.
I am very happy with my life but want a life partner. Adding you will be the icing on my cake of life. (yes, I like sweets)