wait people go on first dates? Don't even know what that is. please explain it to me!!!! I just want to have a good time, thats all that matters lets break some rules, be loud and have a great time doing it. I'm not into big overly romantic things. I prefer one flower instead of a dozen. I'm more layed back so renting a movie and relaxing is fine with me. But I don't mind the romatic dates either. I just want someone who knows how to treat and repect a lady. I'm a tough girl so I'm not asking to be treated like a barbie doll, but like a lady.