“How wrong it is for a woman to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than to create it herself.”
? Anais Nin
If your first thought AFTER reading my profile in its entirety is "she's bitter" then you're probably offended by something you read, which means it holds true. Don't even bother. I just know what I don't want.
Note: if you're the dude with your middle finger up in all your pics or the one with the random pics of your car(s) and/or money and/or random bottles of liquor, you need not read below. I have my own car and I make my own money, and that "hood, rep your crew/city" mess is for the birds, thanks. Update: if I don't respond the way you want me to, calling me an angry bitter black woman and telling me that you're not the man that hurt me WILL NOT help your cause. It may be time to look within yourself and ask why you think I'm angry. I do not need a man but I'd like to share my life with someone. So I'm not angry lol I'm thankful for the men in my past for helping me to learn to appreciate myself and notice the right man when he comes along. I'm not a game player, I'm honest. If that's not for you, there is no need for you to continue reading.
I consider myself a caring person, easy going, open-minded and fun. With that said, I am also smart, often underestimated, always working to improve myself, goofy, often nerdy, and am looking for someone to grow with.
My exes tell me that I can't take a complement and that I am picky...but I try really hard not to be; I try to accept the things I wouldn't normally accept in order to see where things could lead.
My taste in music is just as diverse as my interests. I love jazz, hip hop, old school rap, neosoul, classical, rock, and pop. i love the oldies, my fav group is probably the temps but its tough with so many good ones out there.
I'm crazy about movies. I love going to the movies and I have to admit I'm a total homebody, love a good movie, ice cream, on the couch with my man.
I would say that I'm a jeans and t-shirt type of woman. I love to relax, eat, sleep, go to carnivals, amusement parks, reg parks, fairs, and have a good time. I love museums, art or otherwise i love to learn new things.
I dont do clubs, I enjoy lounges, poetry slams, a good bar, nice restaurant...I'd prefer to hang out in my chucks, t-shirt, and jeans, have a drink, nice conversation and chill. However, when I need to "act like a lady" as they say, I'll put my heels and dress on, do my hair and mind my manners. I also like to read and play board games. I'm competitive. I love watching my Eagles play, nothing beats football season.
I am interested in someone who is just as if not more ambitious than I am. Morals and trust along with honesty are a must. I do not cheat because I would rather just say that I am unhappy, I expect the same respect and courtesy from the man I am with. I can appreciate a man that is close to his family as I am very close to my own.
Patience is a virtue. I value that. I realize that women are sometimes difficult, I am no exception. I'd like someone that I can be myself around. Someone that is interested in different types of things as I like to learn and try new things in addition to teaching and getting someone else to try something new.
First impressions are important but second chances are sometimes worth it, so I'm open to meeting someone and taking the time to get to know them. I look forward to meeting someone with the same mindset.
Get to know me, then ask for my number. Put in the work and reap the benefits. Don't be lazy. It's disappointing.
Whether its love, sex, money, friendship or something else, there is someone for everyone on here. I respond to everyone that sends me a message but please understand that this response is not a confirmation of interest. Good luck in life and love to everyone.