You get bonus points if you've seen the movie MrDestiny with James Belushi. I thought it sounded like a really cool screen name, so that's why I picked it.
I'm striving to be a better dad, friend, and man in general. I never thought I would be single at 50, but I'm ready for the next phase in my life. I would love to find someone special to share it with.
A little about me:
I’m optimistic and idealistic by nature, so I tend to approach life with a very positive attitude. I'm personable, funny, financially/emotionally stable, goal oriented, and confident. Most would describe me as an All American guy with a bad boy streak. I tend to be flirty and forward, but it’s never intended to offend. I’m also neat and clean. I floss daily and smile a lot. I enjoy all kinds of sports and being outdoors. I exercise 5-6 times a week. I'm not obsessed with it, but I like to be active. You will often find me jogging at Lake Hefner or doing cardio at the Y. I've ran a couple of 1/2 marathons and numerous 5K's. I plan to do a few more. My two favorite hobbies with my buddies are horse racing and fantasy football. I enjoy traveling and especially like weekend get aways or summer vacations. An Alaskan cruise is on my bucket list. I'm a huge fan of Seinfeld and SNL reruns. I like going to the movie and smuggling in candy to go with the popcorn. I like most dramas, comedies, and psychological thrillers. (I studied Psychology in college and would love to be a criminal profiler). I'm educated and know the difference between they're, their, and there. I think good grammar is sexy. I'm always up for a trip to the zoo. I love to grill out and hang out by our neighborhood pool. I'm all about shorts and flip flops. I like a variety of music including rock, pop, country, and contemporary Christian. I especially like all the stuff from the 70's and 80’s: Journey, Eddie Money, Styx, Eagles, Bee Gees (yes, I’m admitting to liking the Bee Gees).
Professionally, I'm on my 2nd career. I coached high school football for 10 years as my first. I've been with a major insurance company the last 17 years in various training and leadership positions. Personally, I have 4 amazing kids that I love dearly. I also have a granddaughter. They are all beautiful, handsome, and smart of course! I’m a Christian guy and really love Life Church.
When it comes to dating, I tend to be affectionate and enjoy romance. I'm looking for a woman who is fun, affectionate, and fits me. I would like great friendship and amazing physical chemistry with one woman for the rest of my life. I'm really not into the bar scene and hate cigarette smoke. I look forward to meeting my lifetime "partner in crime."
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm open to just about anything fun.....walk at the lake, dinner, tennis, picnic, etc... The chemistry and connection are the most important things.