I love being in the sunshine and doing anything outdoors. Love Conversation and the thrill of learning about people. I'm a true home body and getting over my go out and party phase, although, dancing is atleast a once a month requirement ; ) love quiet nights at home and would love to find someone to share these moments with.
That being said I am an independent woman and enjoying being single enough to let go of relationships that don't fit... I don't want anything to do with "making things work." I feel like people will fit together or they won't and am not afraid to call it as I see or feel it. I want someone who isn't afraid to be their raw self, communicate their needs and be sensitive to others' needs. I want someone who is a responsible professional who can switch hats and be silly and adventurous when the opportunity presents itself. I have hobbies and talents and don't need to be with a mate constantly to know that I am loved or cared about. I don't want to be someone's everything... I was and this is where it got me : ) I want someone who has their own life and goals and wants to add to their already full existence by having a partner to grow old with.
"...Love is to join and separate, To walk alone and together,
to find a laughing freedom that lonely isolation does not permit.
It is finally to be able to be who we really are
no longer clinging in childish dependency
nor dociley living in separate lives in silence,
it is to be perfectly oneself and perfectly joined in permanent commitment
to another -- and to one's inner self..."
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Great conversation that leaves me smiling.