Sorry for the bluntness-be prepared: THIS IS NO SALES ADVERTISEMENT; this is just widdle old me...pst, dont waste your $ in seeing my or others "upgraded profile"-mines all here in black n white. (have you voted for the couple who should get the money on here...i say, it should be delegated and distributed evenly with all of us being free lab-rats on here in my op)
Im an honest, loyal and driven woman looking for an intellectually stimulating man who can challenge yet make me laugh and share some adventures with. Im not looking for a one night stand, as i find integrity and honesty worthy of my time. I may not be the woman for you; I can b perceived as intimidating yet once you get to know me people typically find me to be quirky and oddly witty. I dont play games nor am interested in one who does. I have done various things throughout my life from playing D-1 volleyball to degrees in Archaeology, Anthropology grad schools for Marine Archaeology, Biology and more. I enjoy discussing most anything. I can fit in at a dive or chat it up in an evening gown and know which fork to use. I love history, the arts, travel and any adventure that comes my way and can be very spontaneous. I love to learn and try to maintain an open-mind even if our views differ; respect is integral to any relationship. I am finishing my MEd to become dually certified in science and history to teach k-12; currently middle grades sci cert. I am lifeguard, black-water SCUBA, first aid among other things certified so I may save your life if need be ;)
I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for whom Im not. "rest in reason, move in passion"-Kahlil Gibran
I may be one of the few on here thats taken out the time to indicate in as an objective tone to clarify what I prefer and what YOU may NOT prefer with me in hopes of possibly finding compatibility without the charades.
To me, your level of education, big family name, beaucoups of $ you may make or your profession is NOT indicative that u r a classy man with a level-head. Ive been out with many of these aforementioned types of men who feel they are enititled in deserving respect; however failed to attend their etiquette class at their "harry potter boarding school." YUCK! (sorry...not impressed) On that note Ill add, unless youre from the UK, your profile looks quite silly saying you enjoy "pubs" here in the states; theyre BARS and saying "pub" doesnt make you look anymore "charming;" so what...you like to drink and go out-ADMIT it in a clear voice please.
APOLOGY IN ADVANCE FOR THE FOLLOWING AS IT IS BLUNT: If you "claim" you have no drama you have either not lived life or are simply lying; not interested. If you describe yourself as a "nice guy who always finishes last" or something akin, welp, perhaps you live in a bubble with rose colored-glasses; not interested since Id rather not be around when your bubble bursts and the soap causes tears to flow, then the glasses crack and see things in a warped way. Im looking for an Ace in the deck and know how to pull out the joker. Sap "cuddlers" who esteem themselves on being so sweet and good to their woman need not apply-people will make their own judgements in due time in how "good" you are to your woman. If you dont drink, thats fine but do hope you r not a recovering alcoholic; Im sorry but will not go to your AA-meetings while holding your hand.
I have been DIRECT with my profile for the SIMPLE REASON of trying to be a REALIST and objective with your understanding I am comfortable with who I am and stand by my convictions. Ive tried to omit "presumptious undertones" to try and say Im the greatest ever (because we all have flaws naturally and do accept others' flaws...BUT we all have our limitations on what and how much we would want to surround ourselves with.) Ive tried my best in not sounding like some sort of "sales advertisement," which I see on here often. If you are in a relationship or married, pls save your and my time in not wasting both of ours...YES, this applies to SEPARATED MEN TOO! Ive more respect for "that' woman in your life than you. Close your last chapter before you jump ahead to another...you will not understand the ending regardless. Also, my pics are very up-to-date; within 6 months. P.S. (people have referred to me as a sweet and kind person believe if you will ;))
*Also, if you click you would like to meet me on that feature, I do not respond and would prefer a message; at least that way I will know you have actually read my profile and are serious about communicating.
*PLEASE do not ask for my phone number in the first message (or ss#, address, passport number, banking info etc.;) if there is a mutual interest I would love to chat with you on here and go from there. I hope men on here will respect all womens' wishes to not be pushed into getting their phone number. We are on here b/c we are single yet would be naive if we were not cautious.
-If you have actually made it all the way through with my blathering and reading this now, I salute you as at least I may have piqued your curiosity for an oddball like myself and provided a snippet of amusement for you (clapping furiously! ;))
ACCURATE, UPDATED, REAL profiles GREATLY APPRECIATED! (pls let me know if they add anymore "mail-settings"-i love those little checkaroos. DING, next please...its like a crap shoot on here with misrepresentation. Im sure you gentlemen have seen the same.
P.P.S.: if you tend to get a wee persnickity with me or whacko shines thru quickly, careful what you ask for; i tend to skip the bark and go right for the jugular. Guys are always ASTOUNDED at how much it takes to rattle me, yet whine when I respond in kind to redunkulous gross messages as Im pretty good at sparring if thats what youre here for...(yawn.) I take most dumb dumb messages in stride...be CLEVER-PLEASE. I promise to reciprocate "more" cleverly ;)
Hang-gliding while toasting mimosas and sharing a cheese platter...i mean really, that would be ideal, but obviously, it would just depend.
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