If you don't read my profile, or you obviously don't fit my needs, don't bother wasting your time. I'm very true to myself, my values, and my wants. If you think just being gorgeous is going to get you anywhere with me, you're wrong. :)
I am a complex network of fuses ignited by stimuli: art, color, design, passion, compassion, theory, ingenuity, creativity, sound, no sound, touch, sincerity, depth, intellect, simplicity, grace, excellent raw energy, self control to chocolate? No control!
I'm an intelligent, independent, classy, strong, yet a very feminine, sweet, woman. I like my counterpart: the masculine, take-charge, confident, success-driven man who tends to balance out my femininity. This man tends to have a little more testosterone than the average bear, but knows how to make me feel like a woman inside. In return, I aim to respect, honor, please, and follow his lead which makes him feel like a man inside. Don't mistake this for weakness. I just like to embrace my femininity and gender role, but I know how to stand firmly with my beliefs.
I'm very positive with an upbeat energy, and try to live in the moment which allows me to exude innocence and coyness despite the hardships of life. Men find this cute, but it's just my personality. I'm physically easy on the eyes and have been known to walk into a room where people stop to look at me which creates a lot of unwanted attention and is why I tend to dress modestly and not dominate conversations unless it's being asked for. I may be the center of attention at times, but I'm humble enough to know when to allow others to take the lead. I know what it means to truly respect myself. I do not like sexual attention from anyone but my partner, nor do I like being encountered by men in public when their attention is not encouraged. I don't dress to flaunt my lady parts as those are sacred. I value my worth, yet I'm aware of my liabilities and try to turn them into assets. I listen to others very well as it's a practice I appreciate. I'm not jealous or competitive of other women because I know what I bring to the table.
Most pretty people are two-dimensional: they feel entitled, need a lot of attention, are stuck up, and let's face it, they can't keep their legs closed or pants zipped. I'm different, and I like being different: I'm sweet and kind to everyone. I only like positive attention. I'm not entitled, and I will only sleep with a man when there is an emotional connection and I know I'm the only one. I want a good looking gentleman who is different as well, willing to allow things to progress at a modest pace, and who is not running around trying to procreate or plant his seed in as many women as possible. Please be a man of integrity, and be different. I took a few years off from dating in order to prepare myself for something real. I don't want a fling, and I hold up to this standard. You definitely won't be sleeping with me after just a few dates. Sorry. Please don't waste my time. I'm only utilizing this site to help me be more selective, but I don't have high hopes.