F_CK, I feel as if i am here panning for gold and all i keep getting is mud and gravel.
I have found a handful of really good guys - but........bottom line is that ALL men are looking for the same thing..........some are just more tactful about how they go about it. My best guy friends have confirmed this for me.
I want more than what most are willing to offer.
Tricky part is that there has to be that elusive chemistry, but also sooo much more in sync with regards to lifestyle and proximity, work hours and habits etc.
I am not sure how much compromise i am willing to give at this point in my life, nor do i expect it.
There are some matches who just fit naturally. That is what i am looking for. We cross check our lists and they match up, without anyone doing anything differently than they already are doing, if that makes sense. The least amount of bending required.
I can definitely see and understand why everyone chooses the "casual route". It is the easy way out.
I am not interested in sharing anyone with another woman. I can't do it. I won't do it.
***IMPORTANT NOTE : If i can't get to you on my own, on Toronto public transit within 1/2 hour - the chances of it ever working out are extremely slim. I am not moving, nor would i expect anyone else to.
Get out and ENJOY THIS FABULOUS DAY!!!!!!!!!!
I enjoy a spontaneous meeting over a very planned out one :) Something short and sweet and preferably outdoors, to be continued if we both choose to....
No pressure, no expectations - because we all know finding that elusive chemistry is crazy challenging.
I prefer real and genuine over someone trying too hard - being overly complimentary too soon is NOT genuine and will not be well received.
Chemistry cannot be forced - just be YOU.