BeachMermaid70: Reel Clever, Real Blonde
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Toronto (beach), Ontario
45 year old Female, 5' 8" (173cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Taurus
BeachMermaid70 is actively seeking a relationship.
Bachelors Degree
Beach Bum
Media, M-F, 9-5'r

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Blond(e) Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets Other  

About Me
F_CK, I feel as if i am here panning for gold and all i keep getting is mud and gravel.

I have found a handful of really good guys - but........bottom line is that ALL men are looking for the same thing..........some are just more tactful about how they go about it. My best guy friends have confirmed this for me.

I dunno.

I want more than what most are willing to offer.

The tricky part is that there has to be that elusive physical chemistry - not easy to find in itself, and why we sift through pic after pic on here - if there is no immediate surface attraction or desire to hug/kiss that person - why bother meeting up, right? (I have a strong preference towards caucasian men who are minimum 6 feet tall and have some meat on them :) 190lbs+, also a hair-free back please - was just at a public pool with the kids and saw a few apes - threw up in my mouth a little bit - blech - huge turn off)

BUT... also sooo much more needs to be in sync with regards to such things as: intention, lifestyle, proximity, work hours, children's schedules and general habits etc.
I have found sparks (someone who gives me butterflies). I have found very caring and nice.
Now, i need to find a combo of both, and a person who does not shun from the idea of forever MONOGAMY, which is proving to be almost impossible :{

I am not sure how much compromise i am willing to give at this point in my life, nor do i expect it.

There are some matches who just fit naturally. That is what i am looking for. We cross check our lists and they match up, without anyone doing anything differently than they already are doing, if that makes sense. The least amount of bending required.

I can definitely see and understand why everyone chooses the "casual route". It is the easy way out.

If you have ever been unfaithful to a partner, i can say right now that you are NOT for me - don't bother messaging me. Zero tolerance for cheaters. Move on.

***IMPORTANT NOTE : If i can't get to you on my own, on Toronto public transit within 1/2 hour - the chances of it ever working out are extremely slim. I am not moving, nor would i expect anyone else to.

First Date
I enjoy a spontaneous meeting over a very planned out one :) Something short and sweet and preferably outdoors, to be continued if we both choose to....
No pressure, no expectations - because we all know finding that elusive chemistry is crazy challenging.
I prefer real and genuine over someone trying too hard - being overly complimentary too soon is NOT genuine and will not be well received.
Chemistry cannot be forced - just be YOU.

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