If it is right - it should be easy.
I can get along with anyone; I am a chameleon.
I have been told that i am "normal", genuine, transparent, kind and goofy.
My Myers Briggs results show my personality type as: Logistician (ISTJ-a) - https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
I want to spend my time really getting to know someone, with the hopes that it will blossom into something long-lasting.
Sadly, far too many people prefer casual connections these days. What is the point of that? What a waste of time! If you have any self-respect, this shouldn't sit well with you. If you are okay with casual, or have ever been unfaithful to a mate, please don't bother sending a message. I am better than that!
I am attracted to a certain type, for sure (see list above in the Interests section), and don't reply to very many on here. I don't care what anyone says - pictures are important (and not ones from 2009, come onnnnnn). Maybe it is just me, but i can get an immediate vibe as to whether or not i am interested by a natural humble confidence, a compatible energy, style, certain twinkle in the eye or even a warm smile (oh yeah, show your teeth by the way!) In simpler terms - it is like going shopping for a great pair of jeans - there is a lot of choice - some are an immediate no, some are alright but not super flattering, others fit like a glove and make you feel amazing. Finding a great mate is much the same, and it is important to be true to yourself and never settle.
I want to be walking with you somewhere and have that excited feeling inside that - wow, he is just SO damn cute, i am so lucky to be with him right now, look into your eyes, hold your arm, your hand, kiss you, touch you, effortlessly and naturally.......
I have only found it a handful of times in 6 1/2 years of being single. It is rare and special.
It is simple. The chemistry is either there, or it isn't, and it does start with a physical attraction, so take some time to post a few great photos of yourself.
***Bonus points if you are handy - and i don't have to call Rent-A-Husband to get help with basic home repairs ;)***
*Note* If you spend time counting calories, or can never just skip the gym and indulge in a triple chocolate brownie sundae with me without feeling guilty - it will never work out between us!* and please don't message me if you live far away and cannot find time to meet in person. This seems to be a pattern that I am in and it is a waste of my time. Thank you.
Some interesting Facts :)
It takes less than four minutes to decide whether you have feelings for someone.
People with high self-esteem have longer and more successful relationships.
Cuddling triggers the same neurological reaction as taking painkillers.
Holding hands with someone you love can alleviate physical pain as well as stress and fear.
Falling in love has similar neurological effects as a cocaine high.
Men who kiss their wives in the morning are said to live five years longer than men who don’t.