Well after a long marriage that I thought would be my only one, I find myself back in the dating world. I'm still not sure what I am looking for so please be gentle with me...
***From being on here for a little bit I can at least say this. I know how a lady is supposed to be treated. I was raised as a southern gentleman and am aspiring to raise my son in the same manner. I will open doors for women, elderly, handicapped, and yes even other men. There will not be a shirtless photo on my profile. If we talk enough and you really want one then maybe in a private message. I'm not looking for a bootie call but at this moment I am not looking for marriage either. However, if a true long term relationship evolves then I am not going to stop it. So I guess there needs to be an option for "I'm interested in dating only until I actually find someone that has a clue and then I'm looking for a relationship" I know how to (mostly) use the english language and plan on using it in conversations, if you can not understand that then let me know if I need to speak in Crayon. If I have to decipher the text of the message you send to me I will most likely not be replying.
I am sorry that this culture has devolved to where little boys in men's bodies think they can get away with what they do to women. True women should never have to be subjected to that crap. A true woman also should never think that they need to show a lot of skin to attract men. (Side note: If you have very risque photos on your profile, don't have in all caps about not wanting a bootie call and men stop contacting me...) A true woman knows how to dress seductively without showing too much. Honestly a woman in a sexy professional business suit will turn a gentleman's head quicker than a photo that leaves nothing to imagine.
ok I'll got off my soapbox for now.. stay tuned
Oh and BTW... POF sucks on fixing profiles, it thinks like actually most people do that I'm 36. I'm actually 41 but can run circles around most 36 year olds.