I am starting to get my life where I want it. My goals are to pay down my debt and get my own home soon. Right now I am looking for a woman I can get to know and spend time with. I still want to have kids of my own, and while I am not against dating someone with kids I have some limitations. I don't intend to meet your children right away, no more than 2 children, the same father, and no drama with him. I am not looking for someone to pamper. I want someone who will work side by side to make a future with.