Alright, here's the deal. I'm not female. I'm an FTM (4 years on T, pre-op). This site, like many others, has horrific gender/sexuality options, so I picked the gender option that seemed most likely to return results relevant to my interests. I like fierce femmes, genderqueers, transfolks, and various other gender performances (excluding cis-gendered men. sorry, boys!). I'm pretty much an equal opportunity employer. Also, this is important, I am poly. Yes, that's right. I have a number of relationships and lovers at once. If you aren't cool with this kind of arrangement, then we will probably not work out on a romantic level.
As for the rest:
I'm queer. I'm kinky and a top (read: i am not a bottom/switch. ever.) I identify as an anarchist, anti-racist, and a rabid feminist. I'm a devout atheist (ha!), but own a slew of Satanic t-shirts that I enjoy seeing people react to. My wardrobe is 99.5% black. I like being near the ocean because it makes me feel small. My immediate response to most things is laughter, even when it is wildly inappropriate. I really like most things that can be described as 'brutal'. I'm a transplant from the midwest to the bay. I moved here 3 years ago. I'm a butcher which means I spend a lot of time cutting animal carcasses into pieces for rich jerks. I read constantly. I, at this point, live in my book collection's apartment. I work out a lot. I go see as many shows as possible, and absolutely live for music -- making and listening. When I'm not at work, I'm DJing and producing EDM -- mostly glitch, dubstep, trap, and drum and bass. There can never be enough bass. Ever. I'm going to school for audio engineering, so I can get paid the big bucks to do what I already do anyway. I collect vinyls. I play a bunch of instruments I don't feel like listing. I collect expensive, shiny pieces of electronic equipment and tools. I am filled to the brim with [often] useless information about a myriad of topics. I play a lot of ukulele and I am available for serenading purposes. I love tearing things apart to see how they work. I break things and build things. I love working on my bike, cars, boats, home repair, whatever, anything that uses my hands and brain simultaneously. I'm really, really good at dealing with a crisis and making contingency plans. I have Asperger's. I probably think too much for my own good, but I am pretty alright at keeping it real.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I am down for whatever, really. Let's get some beverages. Or dinner. Take me to your favorite place. I'll take you to mine. Let's see a show. Let's go to the beach. Let's go dancing. Let's go kite flying -- I have one. Let's picnic in the park. Let's wander around the city. Let's go to a museum. Let's go to the record store. Let's go ice skating (I may or may not have been a figure skater when I was a kid...). Let's stay in and I'll cook you dinner. Let's watch a movie.