**Updated March 23, 2014**
..If you message me, at least read some of my page or I will block you.. I dont expect you to read all of it because I know that its way more than what most people put on here, but if you cant take a couple minutes to read some of what I have to say, then dont message me.. I don't like generic, copy and paste messages that just say, "hey", or "whats up", I will block you, be more creative, seriously, I really don't think that's asking too much... AND, if you want to talk to me, then you must be able to hold a conversation at at least the fifth grade level.. the conversational skills of a lot of the women on here are absolutely horrible.. So if you think that I would have a better conversation with a head of lettuce rather than you, then don't bother messaging me.. which this is also addressed in further detail further down on my page.. So with that being said, I was born and raised in the Bay Area of California... I've lived in 3 other states... I’m really outgoing and I have a great sense of humor.. I like when a girl has a good sense of humor too, and can joke around with me and not be uptight... I like women that are slim or fit body type because it shows that they take care of themselves, and because I take care of myself... I also like average body type (which means not chunky and not on the verge of being overweight, or overweight)... I'm pretty healthy for the most part so I would like a girl to be the same and at least try to make an effort and care about their body.
I think it's attractive when a woman has tattoos, but it's not like it bothers me if you don't have any, not to mention I don't have any either..... I'm pretty energetic.. I like to crack jokes and make people laugh, especially, and I know when to be serious.... I am a good listener, honesty is very important to me, partly because I know how frustrating it is when you confide in someone and they break your trust.. So obviously I would like a woman to be honest as well, which seems hard to come by... I'm good at communicating, so I also would like a woman who can communicate well.. I'm loyal, I don't cheat.. So if you're a woman who is a player and you like to play games, or you're a cheater, do not message me, I have no tolerance for those things... I like randomness.... I can be sarcastic.... I like a variety of music.. some of which are rock/hard rock (Chevelle and Breaking Benjamin are some of my favorite bands), some hip hop, some rap, and rmb.. I also like jazz, classical, music from the 1950's and 60's (oldies) to 1980's, and other music as well.. I dont care for country music very much..... I am not one of those people that's into partying, getting wasted and swinging from chandeliers, blacking out, or waking up in a stranger's bath tub, lol.. that's really not my thing.. I dont mind going out with some friends every now and then to play pool and have a few drinks at a chill location... I dont like loud/crowded bars.. or clubs, where its packed like sardines, and the women just cant wait to grind all over a random guy they just met... some of those places can be pretty raunchy.. like you can walk through the door, just minding your own business and breathing like you always do, and std's just fly right up your nose.. ha, just kidding..
..Some other things that I would like to address, is that I am not a guy that likes to move fast when it comes to relationships.. I don't ask a girl out in a week of knowing her, and then want to have her babies and ask her to live with me after a couple months, lol.. It seems that a lot of people nowadays are just jumping into relationships head first when they barely even know the person, then they get to know each other while they're already in a relationship, and then break up after a month or two because they realized how much they couldn't stand each other... So its good to start out as friends and get to know the person that you think you might be interested in, before nose diving into a relationship and having a baby with someone you barely know, and have to deal with all that "baby daddy/baby mama" drama that seems to be the new craze these days...
..If you are a girl that talks ghetto and is a gangster wannabe then don't bother trying to talk to me.. it's not cute or attractive, and it doesn't make you seem cool... I can make a conversation out of anything; talk about anything.. but I would like it if a girl could also be somewhat creative and imaginative themselves and figure out what to talk about too.. When I get initially messaged on here, I would expect the purpose of that would be to get to know me (why else would you message someone..) but a lot of the time I end up carrying the weight of the conversation and the woman just gives dead end responses, which is very annoying, so do not waste my time.. It seems not many women on here know how to hold a conversation and they don't seem very interesting, or like they have much personality either... and if you send an opening message, don't just say, "hey", "hi", "how are you?".. Please be a little more creative then that, seriously... maybe comment or relate to something I talked about on my page; what we have in common.. because you can connect with someone through shared experiences, things you have in common, being able to relate to that person, etc, etc.. which everyone should know these things... no one likes a boring, generic message that you can just copy, paste and send to anyone... people should try to stand out from the crowd (at least a little bit, if you're really that lazy I suppose) to get noticed by someone they think they might be interested in.. hmm, I guess that's just me... what I think is pretty funny is when girl's profiles say that they wont reply to messages that just say, "hey", "whats up", etc.. but then if they contact a guy, that's what they say.. they're like, "hey", "whats up"... come on now, seriously, lol... Im pretty down to earth, open minded, understanding, and non-judgmental..
..Well if you've made it this far, then congratulations, you deserve a special certificate of recognition and a virtual handshake... most people don't read these things and they just send you a message with no thought or personality.. anyway, I hope that you enjoyed reading my novel, have a great day, and God bless America.. because Obama is ruining everything, lol..