Discover something about me through conversation.
I am a writer. I have a BA in Creative Writing. I just got out of a long relationship. I don't know what I want right now. I have moved back in with my parents after having spent the last five years in Pennsylvania for school and then living there with my ex-boyfriend. I am just trying to find myself again, some soul searching.
I have a wide range of interests, which I would prefer you to ask me about rather than list them all here. Some hints as to what they are: creativity, outdoors, discussion, books, writing, animals, movies, silliness…Now you figure out what you would like to know. :)
One of my biggest pet peeves on this site is the lack of conversation. Don't get me wrong, I like the compliments of "You're pretty" or "You have a nice smile," but please don't let that be the full substance of your messages to me. I can't emphasize enough how much I like to discuss and get to know a person through their mind, understanding them from the inside out. Of course we may end up having little in common, but that is okay. This site is all about testing the waters and seeing what other fish are out there.
To be clear, I am at this point where I don't know what I want, so it is safest to pursue friendship for now. If something happens, it happens and I'm not going to stop it. I'm just floating along being myself.
I'm open to anything, really, but surprises and excitement are pretty great too.
I have found more casual settings are best. Going out for a fancy dinner has too much pressure to it and leads to many awkward moments. A movie can be great, but conversation is inhibited.
I would have to say my best first date ever was a walk through Parker Dam National Park with a snack of cherries, pretzels, and water in one of the many picnic areas. Sometimes simple and easy going is best. :)