I'm a 35 yr old mixed lady... No children never married. I live in my own place. I can be shy at first, but once I warm up to you we're good. I'm a good listener, I'm a good friend to talk to. I like to have fun, but I also don't mind hanging at home. I prefer to go to a bar rather than a club. I'm not into drama, and I don't call everyone my friend. Trust is earned when respect is given. I'm not looking to "hook up" with somebody. I'm in no hurry to give phone number just because you think you need it in order to get to know me better.