ah10tive14u: Life lessons in play...
Non-Smoker with Athletic body type
Raleigh, North Carolina
47 year old Male, 5' 10" (178cm), Non-religious
Black, Libra
ah10tive14u is looking for a relationship.
Some college
Free Thinker
Executive Security/Personal Trainer

Wilmington-Memorial Day Weekend 2013

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
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Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 10 years
Pets No Pets  

About Me
On 06-27-13 (lost my Grandmother) , I was proven wrong and realized everything that I've ever gone through; and thought my world had ended was nothing. I had already gone through heartache (09-10-11, lost my Grandfather), now it is broken...

Dating is hard enough as it is, and we all tend to get caught up in what we think is good for us. Even more superficial what family, friends may think that would or will be. And then we're off chasing that dream searching/looking for; and most but not all the time finding the WRONG DAMN ONE!!!!!!

We are so eager to find out or ask someone's favorite: type of music, food, restaurant or color and not know if they have a point of view on or about anything. And then you are shocked when you find out that they cannot hold their own in a conversation.

Now I'm not saying anyone should settle for just anything or anyone but if you are chasing someone we all get tunnel vision; and "that" person and "that" relationship is all we want. Try slowing down and you'll begin to see everyone who's sees how great you are. Why run after "Some-thing" when someone is willing to WALK with you?

First things first, I admit that I have made many mistakes in my life, and I own them all. I will say this, I may appear to come off as an Atheist, but its not the believing in a higher power, that is not the case. My issue is with organized "religion" itself and all the inconsistencies it holds and all the crap that is carried out in the name or for the sake of. They say separate church and state, and in speeches you always hear "God bless America" (and nobobdy else). "We need to keep religion out of government and government out of religion".

And they do such a fine job too, it says so on ALL our government issued currency, "In God We Trust". Which is it? you can't have it both ways. And you are suppose to not question and follow blindly and have faith... Really... That's like being a Democrat or Republican, just voting or going a certain way because that is what expected of you. Anyone who makes a decision before they hear the issues is a FOOL...

Now that I have so many of you ready to beat down my door like I'm (Insert your favorite singer, actor here). A little about me I moved back to NC (I'm originally from Wilmington) after living in Atlanta for the past 18yrs.

I'm a Certified Personal Trainer so Health and Fitness is very important to me; but it doesn't cause me to only look for a specific type, plus real women have curves. With that being said I'm sorry I know I am trainer; but a sixpack and guns are not attractive to "ME" on a woman.

Women to me should be tough on the inside and delicate on the outside. And I'm not saying that you have to appear or be runway/cover girl ready at all times. But I don't want you to look like you just jumped out of a plane behind enemy lines or like you could yank a transmission out of a car with your bare hands. What I am truly attracted to is a confident woman and how she carries herself is what I find to be extremely sexy.

I have dated women of various ethnicities and I have had positive, healthy relationships/ friendships with them all. Love and Life are to short and you can end up losing out on both sitting around waiting on something as unimportant as color or culture to match what family, friends and society says. I don't know who was put on this earth for me so how could they?

I also understand that not everyone feels or think the way I do and that's fine. And if I have offended anyone in anyway I apologize. But all I can do from this point is smile and keep it moving.

Note: Before you judge someone you should walk a mile in their shoes. That way when you do, you're a mile away and at that point who gives a shyt what your judgmental ass has to say....

Quote: "The good thing about science, is that it's true whether or not you believe in it."
-Neil DeGrasse Tyson

Quote: "Religion is here so that the poor don't kill the Rich."
- Napoleon Bonaparte

Quote: "I will ****slap so many times, you will think you are surrounded."
- Unknown

Quote: "Just because you put syrup on shyt, don't make it pancakes."
- Don't know but my
Granddad use to say it

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