29 year old single dad, looking to find his right hand woman (ride or die so to speak).
I am a very laid back person and approach life differently then most people do.
I try to turn the negative things in life into either lessons learned or challenges to over come.
I do have a son who I cherish and always comes first and foremost, some women cannot handle that fact and I'm sorry but he is my world and we are a packaged deal.
I have been used/abused in many past relationships, whether it be cheated on or used for the dollars I make its happened and I've become somewhat skeptical and weary of a persons true intentions, so forgive me if I am not willing to splurge on a first date.
I often try to put others before myself as that is how I like to be treated.
I have a heart of gold and I am respected by many people in my professional work environment.
I have a tendency to be a bit childish at times, to some I have a great humorous personality, to others well to be honest no one that's ever had an issue with my personality exists in my life.
I have noticed that intimacy lately has been an issue in my past relationships and I find myself wondering why even get into a relationship with me if being intimate is an issue.
I have a good head on my shoulders and I am human like everyone else, treat me with respect and in return I will treat you with the same
Also ladies if you are a avid user of drugs, that is your business, however if your self medicating with drugs to try and treat a mental disorder perhaps or some other medical condition please move on, its better if your with someone who can partake in your particular self medicating than with someone who would rather see you get true medical help, I am a hospital employee and I firmly believe that help is out there if your willing to get it and I dont sit idle by and watch you get high while were together, I've done this before and it did ultimately lead to break up and separation because the person could not accept that there was something else besides weed that could cure their ailment.
Last but not least...
As a man of my stature I find that many women are somewhat taken back by me and often this leads to breaking up because either they aren't ready for a committed relationship or they now find themselves perhaps embarrassed to be with me, I am a big boy and I have had my heart broken many times, I know a lot of this online dating is usually physically motivated, and if I'm not physically what you seek then please move on to someone who is.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Sit down somewhere and just talk.