Got a couple of "hate mails" so I guess it's time to update the ol' profile. Apparently, some people's sense of humor doesn't exactly line up with mine. I'm 42, never married, no kids. I get asked often if I'm afraid of commitment. I'm not. I'm afraid of settling. Well, not afraid, just don't want to do that. I would love to find Miss Right and get married. Maybe one of these days it will happen... On a side note, I have looked at hundreds maybe thousands of profiles on this stupid site since I have been on it, and it seems that right around the age of 35 women just seem to lose their glow. The spark in your eyes is gone .What's up with that ladies? Also, if I can't show your pictures to my 70-year-old mother or my 11-year-old niece, then I'm probably not interested...thx.