Disclaimer: Yes, I am a guy that wants to date FIRST and GET TO KNOW someone to build a relationship with. TO ME, "dating but nothing serious" is not an indication of any sort of alterior motive or finding a FWB. That is not my thing. So although many find it important (it is), I find there needs to be more to a woman besides a nice booty and boobs (I'm more of a smile and eyes guy anyhow). Although its not a bad thing to possess such traits (I'm still a guy), there is more to women than that. So, please put your guard down and understand that we men aren't all bad. Booty calls, etc. wouldn't happen unless another consenting party were involed... think about it. So, with that out of the way, my intentions are to:
1) Find a fun lady to spend quality time and share memories with for the rest of our days on this planet with.
2) Meet a great woman with whom I can spend earn about each other, create great memories with.
3) Become exclusive (eventually, not after our first phone conversation)
4) Become a positive, caring, loyal, companion and best friend to a woman who appreciates me (and vice versa).
I am actually ok with being friends too if there isn't any chemistry between us. I know the what the various definitions of friend are. PLEASE NOTE that I did not say one-night stand, a booty call, or a FWB anywhere in my profile. Thats not how I am at all. I have no hidden agenda, old little black book to fall back on, penis pictures to send or a hidden wedding ring/ wife. I can't believe dudes out there are so stupid and pull that crap. Douche Canoes screw things up for guys like me who end up taking the knocks for their insensitive behavior. People need to be honest from the get go... no lies or deceit. I am done with the immature dating/ relationship. So, in other words, we talk/ chat, we meet, decide to meet again (or not), go on a date (more than one is cool), then see what happens from there. When I am dating someone, there is only one as I feel it better to dedicate time to learning only about them. I refuse to be that guy who has to bullsh*t his way through an evening with someone who deserves my attention.
Me? I'm as real as real can be; I have integrity, and know what chivalry is. I love my life and am a genuinely funny, very creative, sarcastic guy. I'm not going to talk about myself much because if we are interested in talking/ meeting, that is the time where we should learn about each other. I will make you laugh and always treat those who I care about with care, love and respect. There is an "us/ ours", there is a "you/yours", and "me/mine". I'm not going to blow up your phone every day, get psycho-clingy, or jealous. Again, thats not me. I hope you have a great day.
DISCLAIMER: Not all men are shady. I know that you ladies on here take a lot of s**t. BUT, mean people suck, and I do not like to be around them. If you are stuck up, uppity, a narcissist, ultra-conservative, a bible thumper, are judgemental without cause, feel you "above" others based on your ZIP code, or put material things ahead of basic human needs, we don't have much to talk about. At all. BUT all fun, kind, cool people with integrity, a sense of humor, please feel free to respond at your leisure. I will promise you a great time out with a great guy who seeks the same qualities in a "good" person as much as the rest of the world unless you are Charles Manson or someone batsh*t crazy like that. Oh and if you can feed a small country with the amount of money you spend on shoes, bat your eyelashes to avoid paying a nightclub cover charge, or are on here just to see how many guys like you, then you are NOT at all fot me. I don't care how hot you think you are. *sigh*