basically i'm a 42 yr old mom with a 4 yr old daughter who is my world.
remember the days when you were in your 20s and you just stated dating someone without knowing where it was going? if it lead somewhere awesome, and if it didn't, who cared, you had a life lesson. that's basically what i am doing here. would i like to meet my soul mate, of course. but do i think i'm going to meet him tomorrow...no. i'm realistic, very easy going, and laid back. i love to laugh and have a good time. even though i am 42 i neither look nor act like it, but i do know how to be serious when i need to be.
i'm looking for a honest, easy going, positive (do not like negativity), caring, open, good at communication, attractive, basically an all around good guy. i don't think it's a lot to ask for in a guy, but it seems to be cause i'm still here on this stinking site...lol.
i know i am what is considered a bbw, and i am not that way because of not taking care of myself. i actually got cancer in my thyroid several years ago and had to have it removed, when that happened i ballooned up. it really sucked, but i don't care. i still look at myself as a sexy, beautiful, caring, having lots to give a man. i am an awesome girlfriend, i do lots of little things for the one i'm with just to let them know i care. actions speak louder than words i always say.
P.S. if you don't have a pic don't contact me unless you attach a pic in your msg. You have the advantage of seeing me, I should have the same advantage. Thanks!
just updated my pics 7/ 9/14 on the site. I like to keep my pics current. So I expect the same in return. Thanks for visiting.
A first date could be anything from dinner/drinks to movies to shooting pool and beer. I can have fun doing anything as long as the person I am with is fun. Please do remember I have a child and can not just set up a date last minute unless you want me to bring her along...lol. I have to get a sitter like a normal person and can not just whip someone up with my magic wand.
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