I have been in northern cal since feb 2012 .. Original born in Iran, moved to so cal , santa monica when I was a kid and now reside in sac and am still adjusting.
I am looking for a relationship based on mutual attraction respect and shared interests though I am quite willing to embrace differences as well. Politically, I am a bit conservative yet flexible to learn and grow and change.
I am not interested in flings . I am not interested in men recently divorced. I want someone who is not broken, someone I won't have to fix. That isn't my job.
I try to see most things as differences, not right or wrong.
I don't make promises I don't keep. So I have learned not to believe the men who promise me the moon and the sun after a few dates. I will not lose myself in the difficulties of the dating process, in the immaturity, selfishness, confusion and unkind ways of others. Returning inconsideration with kindness is the onmy way to live and I have adopted that path. I believe in politeness and the golden rule . Please however, don't mistake my Niceness for weakness! I am not nauive. I know when to walk away. I have an unusual name, and a slight accent. I buy used books on Amazon. People say I look much younger than my age.
I am a true ENFP. Google it and read about it if you really want to get a feel for me. I believe we all need a passion and a purpose in life to be happy. My passion is helping others and it sustains me through everything.
Hope you love to travel. I have a passport and have been to multiple countries. Seeing how others live teaches me so much.
Turn offs: overgrown facial hair, excessive tattoos , stained shirts, splitting bills and groping on dates. I prefer clean shaven, clean shirts,no tatoos and leaving your octopus hands at home!
Help me believe that chivalry is Not dead
You : no older than 58, educated, employed, relationship minded, not selfish and know what you want . Tall is a plus :)