About Me
Ok before you get to where I write about myself in a sales pitch sort of way, here is my 'disclaimer'. We don't have to do the same things, we don't have to like the same things, we don't have to have the same views. Value's perhaps, not views. What does have to be present is that spark. I imagine my match would already have a life he loves (as do I) and is looking for someone to share it with.
Nothing is sexier or more appealing than intelligence, confidence, and success! That is what I am looking for. And now...read on!
I'm feisty, athletic, love food. Confident, not arrogant and still subject to being human, sometimes to my dismay. My vacations generally end with ous: Arduous, treacherous, strenuous. I am a voracious reader (and a bad speller). I hike, run, do yoga, and lift weights. Walk my dogs in the hills as often as possible. Have hiked for years and now backpack as well. I so love the mountains…
I am the middle of 7. Middle child, which makes me the peace maker, the arbitrator and the favorite, in my opinion anyway! I am very family driven and much of my socializing is with my family. Italian and all that. Part owner of a third generation business
I am looking for someone who will ‘get’ me. Who celebrates my color and flair, who understands that I am a brainiac wild child good girl. Who knows that a college degree often does not equal smart and certainly doesn’t mean exciting..
Who may even be at the finish line of a marathon to cheer me on, or go on a trip with, or find a fantastic restaurant.
I haven’t said I want you to be athletic or tall or have hair or…..although if you know how to dress that’s a plus. You can be thin to a few extra pounds. (Not fat, that indicates an unhealthy life and mind. Yes I said it.)
My humor leans toward the sarcastic which has a tendency to read hard, so I edit. I think if you look at my photos you get an idea of my outward expression. I wake up cheerful and pretty much stay that way. I am absolutely drama free. I swear. No really..
So…would you like to take a walk on the wild side? It may be much different and lots less scary and considerably more interesting than you might imagine.
Finally – please don’t wink or like my picture if you want to meet me. Send me an email. A wink or like is wayyyyy too subtle for the likes of me!
First Date
The suggestions from this site say if I make this section long I am more likely to get a response. As a rule I am a women of few words on paper, on phone and on email. I really don't like to talk on the phone - ask my sisters. It's just best if we can meet.
To expand on my phone talking: I have this 'thing' that I do not want to speak on the phone before meeting. It has upset a few people. I don't give good phone. I also think it is easy to have a false sense of connection via email and phone: we meet and nothing! I'm just not a phone girl, even after we meet.
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