What’s going on here? I didn’t imagine this growing up, did you? I've got a great family, friends, interests, passions and a career I enjoy and time just flew by. I truly believe “the whole is greater than the sum of the parts” applies to life and really miss someone to share and experience this with.
Enter the cold and clinical the Match.com service. It’s another way of meeting others, with the added challenge of deciphering tone and intention through words. All that said, I’m putting it right out there - there is no pressure here. I am completely happy meeting new friends and don't want to rush anything either.
That said, I do look forward to someday meeting my life partner. As mutual friends, confidants, and lovers, we also enjoy our own things and share them. We are just as enriched by and enchanted with what makes each other different.
Friends would describe me as humble, open-minded, successful, faithful, friendly, empathetic and as having many passions and interests.
My expectations are few and in check; mutual respect, honesty, a good heart, fun and some chemistry.
What kind of woman am I looking for? There really is no single, concise answer. First of all, I am not looking for perfection. In general, intelligence is sexy - as well as wit, passion and an active imagination. I prefer "cute" to "hot" any day. I am interested in someone who is easy-going, traditional as well as open-minded.
She is someone who throws on some comfortable clothes to hit a cozy pub for a spontaneous darts and philosophy session as well as someone who enjoys dressing up for an evening out. She doesn’t take life too seriously and gets you thinking with her sense of humor. You know, the little comment that later has you laughing out loud in the middle of a meeting at work.
I like a woman with her own opinions and goals and enthusiastically shares them. I value someone who is intrigued with the different facets of life - I am NOT interested in what you drive, how much you make, or what your clothes cost. I am interested in what makes you tick, why you like how that character was portrayed in the movie we just saw, why you like to crank Latin (Soul? Irish? Disco?) while you... Whom (Insert a Hollywood star or that neighbor you see every year at the Christmas party) is marrying this week should be mostly irrelevant.
We are young and wise, and it took me hearing myself say “kids these days…” while feeling like a kid to realize that.
Send me a note if you agree and would like to chat. Don’t worry, contact on Match doesn’t lock anyone into anything. Meeting new friends is great. I, like you, am what you read and more – the “more” we can have fun discovering along the way.
I hope to hear from you and wish you luck in your search…