I was married 24 yrs, now divorced 7 yrs. I have two children 19 and 25 and they are my life. My son is very much in baseball and i hope he goes pro. He is a catcher and can hit it out of the park...So i go to almost all his games. And my daughter, well at 25 what can I say....she does her own thing but is studying to be a nurse.
I am a very affectionate person, if you are not we will not get along.I love holding hands and kissing even in public( to a point)...lol An ideal relationship is one that accepts the other person for who they are, not what they have or don't have, I don't look at what someone has, I look at the inside of a person. A kind heart will always catch my heart. I am not a materialistic person. I just want someone to appreciate me for what I have to offer and except me for who I am, you will not be disappointed. No one is perfect we all have our good and bad points. We should understand and respect each other and not try to change them. There must be trust in a relationship without trust you cant have a relationship. I don't like cheaters. Do it once and your done. If you have to cheat then your not happy MOVE ON. There is no reason to lie to me, if we cant talk to each other then we don't belong with each other. I was involved with someone who did everything for me, I would come home from work and dinner would be ready, the house will be clean and dishes will be done but he was a very jealous and crazy person and questioned everything I did even to a point when he asked why I was wearing certain underwear to work ( just ONE example) who the hell see's what underwear I wear to work, I don't look at what I pick out of the draw in the early morning. It came to a point that he would ague with me EVERYDAY over stupid sh** and it just did not work out. I am not looking for someone to do these things for me i am looking for my soul mate, I what someone I cant wait to see at the end of the day and he cant wait to see me not someone who I say OK what is he going to fight with me about tonight? I am not a fighter I am a lover 100%...Give me your love and you will get it back twice as much....
I would love to be hugged from someone who means it, when you hug each other and you both don't want to let go, That's a great feeling. :) I love to cuddle up on the couch and watch a good movie. I love to cook and people tell me I am very good at it. I love to cook a special dinner for that very special person. I give 100% to the right person. I love little things like a text to say I miss you and if you give me a flower from the yard or one rose (does not have to be a dozen) just once in a while means a lot to me. I have a big heart and I am tired of getting abused so now I have my guard up.
I love anything outdoors,boating,fishing,jet skying just about anything on the water. I like to camp on the beach or in the woods. I have done them both and I cant say I like either one better. I also love to watch the sunset and sunrise with the right man in my arms. I love animals, I have a kitten I found eating out of the trash in South Carolina and I took her home, a road trip I will never forget lol. I just cant and wont leave an animal in distress. I think any man that thinks the same way must have a good heart. I dont care how many kids you have or how young they are cause i love kids and thats not an issue to me... I would love them like they are my own....I have a lot of close friends, we get together often but I always make time for quite time. I am looking for someone to share the rest of my life with. To be a friend and lover and always be there for each other. OH did I mention I LOVE TO CUDDLE...LOL Good luck in your search...xoxo
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
It does not make a difference to me just as long as we are enjoying each others company, somewhere we could get to know each other. If we think there will be a second date then a kiss on the first date is a must, its all in the kiss...