I am a single mother of a beautiful daughter.. I love my family and friends. I dont go out much anymore, just basically over the bar scene and I dont drink anymore. I am mostly a homebody now days and occasionally will hang out with friends for a get together or bday.. I like to play bingo mostly, even though I haven't been able to play as much as I'd like to lately.. this may sound funny, but Idc. Being at bingo is like my therepy.. when I'm there I can clear my mind, just have fun and enjoy myself. being a stay at home mom can nerve racking and when you don't do anything else, its nice to get out and clear my head. I am outgoing, but shy at first... I have a BIG heart and will go out of my way for those I care about. I take my friendships to heart and seriously ... I dont like drama, dont want it.. if you are drama I'd prefer not to associate with you. I dont have the time or the patience for drama or games, we aren't in high school anymore... Anything else, just ask..
Ps. Because I like to be straight forward and put everything on the table now so there are no issues later, I was recently diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. I have been dealing with it for the past 3-4 years.. they have tested me for everything in the book to rule it out before coming to the conclusion of it being Fibromyalgia. I have started treatment for it and hope that I will finally get some relief of all this pain that I'm always in. I never know when the pain is going to be so severe that I have to end up canceling or backing out of something planned. I try to do my best, but it definitely has taken a toll on my life. I have been a stay at home mom because it has been hard to find work, hard to even get out of bed sometimes, or its because of my medication. Most likely I will soon be getting on disability and most likely me working again is not going to happen because my trade requires too much of what I can no longer perform because of the pain from the Fibromyalgia. I do wish to get the pain under control and hopefully someday be able to work a light job, but after what I've gone through the past 3-4 years, this past year being the worse, I don't see it happening anytime in the near future. Honestly, at this point, I'm tired of the games and failed relationships.. I want a man who can take care of me and provide for me, excepting my daughter as your own. She already has a dad, so I am not looking for a replacement, justzomeone that would love her and treat her as if she was your own. Also i want a man that wouldnt mind allowing me to continue being a full time stay at home mom, and be able to help in her class whenever I can.
Also, after 4 years they finally did another MRI on my neck and found my complaint for so long. I had a herniated disc at c5-c6 which resulted in spinal stenosis and cord compression. They tried different things but nothing helped. Next thing I knew the nerve to my right arm was pinched causing excruciating pain and numbness tingling. Finally on March 8th, 2013 they did neck surgery to have a fusion done and since then, I have been released from that excruciating pain that started consuming my life. I'm still recovering and dealing with the fibromyalgia, but I am one step closer to feeling better. Well that's my story ..
So there you have it... Honesty by me... I'm getting older now, better to be bold about what you want then to just take what comes to you. I need to look out for myself and my daughter, and we need stability.. so if you think your what I'm looking for then message me.
Have a blessed day everyone. ;)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Maybe Coffee or dinner.. something laid back.. something accommodating to getting to know each other.. if all goes well then the more extravagant things.. I don't think that the movies are appropriate for a beginning of a possible relationship because there is no way to get to know each other when you have to be quiet and focus on something else. I am very easy going, but very indecisive.. prefer that you make the choice.. lol.