Over the years I've discovered that behaviors tells me more about the person than words. Although words are important, there has to be some level of actions to back up the words. I do believe in my "four seasons" rule. It's giving me a guideline to follow and a chance for discovery. I've had some very successful relationships and had some that didn't go so well. All I know is that at this point in my life, close friends are more important than being in an unhealthy relationship. Life is short and I intend to be honest, true to myself, and have some fun before it's too late.