carlie2345: Lookin for my sun
About   Occasional smoker with A Few Extra Pounds   City Ames Iowa
Details   46 year old Woman, 5' 6" (168cm), Catholic Ethnicity Caucasian Gemini with Black hair
Intent   carlie2345 is actively seeking a relationship Education Associates degree
Personality   Hopeless Romantic Profession Medical field


dating
October 2012






I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? My children are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 7 years


About Me
If you are a player or if your intent is less than honorable. Please leave me alone. I am a very sincere woman and don't have the energy nor the time for games


It seems on this site there is a broad spectrum. On one end you have your one nighters and on the other end you have your marriage proposals. I am looking for someone that is in the middle. Friends First and see where it may led. I really think some of you men -not all- need to learn some manners. I am someones mother, daughter and sister.

Also if you want to make comments about my facial features. I will block you. Some of the things that have been written have been nothing but crude and rude and to be perfectly blunt I have heard everything that there is to know about my lips.

Also, you should know, I am taking my time. Getting to know someone online is very hard. Finding someone that is sincere and genuine is even harder.

I am a honest, independent 45 year old woman looking for that man that knows what he wants. I want someone who I can look at and knows what I'm thinking without asking. I am not only looking for a physical attraction. I am looking for a mental attraction. I maybe a strong willed woman but I have a very sensitive heart. I also know that it will take a very special man..........

My best friend, out of everyone, knows me the best. If I am upset she can look at me and I will have to tell her not to look at me anymore because if she does I will break down in tears. Through all of our laughing, tears, fights, disappointments we have remained friends for over 15 years. I would like to find that kind of relationship with a man.

I had a man tell me once that I am just a one man woman kind of gal. As for him he said he was always looking. My response to that was, someday I will find someone that likes that quality in me. Needless to say, he is no longer in my life and yes he tried to come crawling back. I have a hard time with this site. How can you get to know someone when you talk with them one moment and the next you're talking to someone else but I am determined to find the man of my dreams. If I don't than at least I tried everything. I have never lied nor cheated with any man that I have been with and that is a quality in me that I am not changing.

I've been divorced for 18 years.I have had some serious relationships but haven't found the one.I've learned the difference from being in love to wanting to be in love.I don't regret any of them. They have helped me to become the woman I am today. I've learned to relax and enjoy life. I like camping but there better be a stream somewhere so I can go fishing. I like sitting around a campfire and grilling out. If you are the type of guy that says I'm never going to get married again. You are not for me. I know where you are at. I've been there. With that being said I am in no hurry in taking a trip down the aisle.

I have raised my two boys on my own. It was not always easy. I have worked very hard for what I have in my life. We made it though.You must have a relationship with your children, no excuses. Come and talk to my boys about what it feels like to be rejected. They are now 23 and 24. They have formed their own opinions. I can longer make them do anything. I now talk to them about forgiveness and keeping their foot in the door.

I have 2 wonderful boys that I truly adore. The youngest is going to college and my oldest is in the Army. I am proud of both of them for following their dreams. The next time you see a military service member, step up and thank them for all that they have sacrificed.

I had a good paying job with excellent benefits, which I hated. I quit that job and went back to school. I did not want to be 80 years old and look back on my life and wish I would of. So now I am working in my field that I have wanted to for so long. Yes it is scary, but I am happy with my decision. It a slow start but I will get where I want to be.

I believe in Karma and it has nipped me in the butt a few times. It taught me empathy,compassion, understanding, and caring for others.

I don't like to be controlled or smothered. I like to learn new things I have never done before and I will try anything once....never know..I might like it. I feel when you quit learning you quit growing as a person.

Don't like to be around negative people. I like to see the good in people. I like to be around positive people they seem to bring the best out in you.

I don't nag. You should know better. I am who I am and you are who you are.

The person I look up to and is my hero is my dad. My dad has recently been sick. So life for me has been busy. He is doing much better now:)

I recently sold my house and moved. It was a hard moved since it was the house that I have raised my boys in. We also had to get rid of our dog Dude. He was a part of our life for 11 years.Despite being 18 he was still going strong.

I come from a large catholic family. I had nuns for teachers. I have a relationship with God. That relationship is between me and God. So please, no scriptures, no lectures. I personally think that if you have to lecture on it, you need to look at your own life. No one is perfect.

I like all kinds of different music...rap I can take it or leave it and yes my boys torture with me it. Can anyone understand what they are saying? I did one time take the lyrics out and started singing it. My boys weren't to happy with me and took the lyrics away and told me I was ruining the song. Still makes me laugh. The things that were coming out my mouth and the look on their faces...that was priceless.

I watch most movies. If they bore me I just turn it off.I was watching a movie the other night. A teenage daughter asked her father how do you know that you are in love. The fathers response was. They see you at your best and at your worse. When they see you at your worse they still see the sunshine shooting out of your ass.

I smile a lot. Laugh a lot. Very good sense of humor and can be quick witted at times.
Don't like drama. It's wasted energy and time.


I am a hopeless romantic and have read romance novels ever since my teenage years.

If you are a druggie, boozer, pill popper, liar, cheater, pervert, religious freak. DO NOT contact me! I really hope I covered them all. I did forget one, a woman beater.

Good luck to everyone! I hope you find what you are looking for!


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