I've been here on POF for a while now. I've met some great people, made some friends, and acquired some crazy date stories, but haven't found what I'm looking for. So what am I looking for? I'm looking for that connection, that instant click between two people. Someone who wants to be with me, who wants to laugh with me and make our own special memories. Someone to have inside jokes with, a best friend I just happen to find extremely sexy, because I'm going to want to make out with you. Just saying.
I have two amazing kids and we have a great time together. I’m the coolest mom EVER! Not gonna lie. I'm not a typical girl, except for when bugs are involved. I like to be organized and have a plan, but I'm not afraid to wing it either. If you're in a crisis situation, you want me there... unless the crisis involves bugs.
I think you can tell a lot about a person by their shoes. I love argyle and Victoria Secret panties. I hate shopping. No, seriously. I hate it. I dislike words like 'favorite' and 'best' and 'normal'. Why does everything have to be measured? If I like it and it brings me enjoyment, that's all that matters.
I love music. I always have some on, and I especially love boys with guitars. I love to read and write, and I’m extremely passionate about words and grammar. Please, use real words with me. There's almost nothing that irritates me more than talking to someone who says 'ur rly cute. what r u up 2?' ARGH!
I don't like coffee or beer. I love soup. I love bananas, but dislike anything banana flavored. Ice cream for breakfast is perfectly acceptable so long as it contains fruit. Scrabble is awesome. Also, games that make you use your brain. Reality TV, except Dancing With the Stars, sucks. I feel like my brain is melting if I even try and watch it. I love kissing. Affection is my drug. I still wear Vans slip-ons and Converse. Jamba Juice may be the best drink ever. I've been told dating is dangerous.
Admittedly, I don't like to do things I'm not good at... probably some nonsense about feeling good about myself. I can be highly competitive and I like to win, but I'm nice about it. I love to sing and dance and laugh and smile, and I have awesome friends. Oh, and hugs are awesome.
I've just finished working on a project that meant so much to me because I got to do things that mean something to someone and changed their life. I may not get paid to do it anymore, but I'm always going to fight for what's right. I volunteer, am active in my union, and I write all kinds of things, songs, books, stories, so I can hear myself think. I'm taking a labor studies class, and slowly talking myself into trying to learn to play the guitar.
I'm an awesome friend and the resident therapist and advice giver. Great at encourgaing you to follow your dreams and not take no for an answer. I'm a fantastic cook and I have an inate ability to tell you how a movie ends halfway into it. I'm very open-minded and a really good judge of character, and hugging. I'm really good at the hugging.
I love all books, but I tend to enjoy stories about people and human nature the most. As far as movies go, as long as it's not scary, we're good. I don't watch much TV, but I enjoy anything funny.
My favorite bands/artists are: Patrick Stump, Panic! at the Disco, Set It Off, Fall Out Boy, The Academy Is..., All Time Low, My Chemical Romance, Parachute, Taking Back Sunday, and You Me at Six. My old favorites are Stone Temple Pilots, Matchbox 20, Third Eye Blind, Violent Femmes, CCR, Rush, Pearl Jam. Once, when I was 12, I loved New Kids on the Block.
Send me a message if you're not a creep and are smart and fun and witty and cute and are interested in real relationships. I'm not looking for anyone to take care of me. I have a job, a place to live, a paycheck, and a car. I'm looking for someone to laugh with and to spend my time with.