About Ray
Ok so how to sell myself without seeming full of myself?? A question I’m sure many of us have faced on here…
I‘m here to meet some great people and hopefully make a deeper connection with someone special. Yes, I know this is a bit of a weird place to find people, but I don’t have co-workers to date, I don‘t like to date friends, and I don’t go to bars looking for women. The online dating world seems like a good enough idea. But yet I have found we still have the same pretenses here as in the “real” world. Guys are still asking women if they are dtf(Really guys?) or people message each other based on how hot your pictures are, rather than ever reading a profile. You know what though, it’s still fun and interesting and we will all get out of it what we put into it.
I am an east coast transplant(name the east coast region, I’ve lived there) who loves my new home. I own two successful small businesses based in Everett and Tacoma, though I live in Bellevue because it’s centrally located. I’m often found exploring the many areas of Seattle, it‘s such a beautiful city. Obviously, I get around the entire Puget Sound area and I really enjoy getting to see so much. That being said, I also like to relax at home with a good book or cuddled up on the couch watching a great movie.
I am driven, ambitious and intelligent. I have two Bachelor’s degrees, an Associate’s and a Certificate, so I am both educated and versatile. I put everything I have in anything I do, both professionally and in my personal life too. I usually get done for the day around five, and when I do, I leave work at work and go home to enjoy my free time. I have faith, but it does not rule every aspect of my life. I am accepting of others beliefs and do not push my own. I am confident in who I am, but I don’t need to make everyone me.
I’m looking for a strong woman who knows who she is(at least for the most part). Opinionated, intelligent, caring, confident and supportive are all great traits. I want to share a life with someone, I know what I want and that’s what I’m here for. I don’t have a “type”, I just know what I like. Being able to carry on a real conversation is more important to me than if you have a doctorate. I’m fun and outgoing for the most part, so I’m looking for a bit of the same, but I abhor rude and obnoxious people. Basically, I’m looking for someone who is classy and elegant, but knows how to let her hair down and have some fun.
I am passionate about my businesses, travel and photography and want to find someone amazing to share my life with. I am not looking for perfection, I know I am not perfect myself, but I am looking for someone who fits. I want to be accepted for who I am, faults and all. Loved for my strengths and accomplishments and not ridiculed for my failures and weaknesses, and I promise to do the same.
First Date
The first date can be anything at all really. I think too many people place too much importance on what the date is going to be rather than focusing on the fact that you just need to relax and get to know each other. There is some pressure, and there are likely to be at least some nerves. So I would say don't do anything too overboard, but also try not to pick plans that are likely to not allow for conversation(i.e. the movies). It is really something that two people have to work out between themselves.
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