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How to Attract ME...
I Found this article and was surprised by how accurate it was about me.
#15 Find a Shared Hobby
Geminis are more likely to engage in conversation with a stranger over a shared hobby or interest. If you want to get to know a Gemini, figure out his or her hobby and show an interest.
#14 Be a Consoler
Geminis are prone to emotional eruptions. You'd better know how to treat someone who needs some emotional support if you want them to consider you as a partner.
#13 Get Smart
Geminis are attracted to intelligence. That doesn't mean you should boast or get pedantic, because they also HATE arrogance. But a broad vocabulary and an ability to keep up intellectual conversation are a must.
#12 Personality Over Looks
Geminis aren't superficial, they are more worried about your personality than your looks. Of course good looks can't hurt either.
#11 Secret Sex Drive
Though they don't outwardly display it, Geminis have a high sex drive and will be looking for someone who can keep up. Make sure you are up to the challenge.
#10 Must Love Dogs (or Kids)
Geminis are pure at heart and tend to love animals and children. Hint, I'm not really an animal person
*I don't really connect to this one lol
#9 Eye Contact
Eye contact is very important to a Gemini. Make sure you are maintaining strong eye contact whenever you interact with them. A wandering eye could cost you everything.
*This one isn't referring to jealousy. See the below link for details
#8 Be Ready for A Personality Shift
One of the classic traits of a Gemini is that they can display different personality traits from day to day. You must be ready to deal with their shift in character.
*Lol @ this one but if you ask, I'll tell you why... Never assume or try to figure me out. Just ask.
#7 Don't Get Loud
Gemini's don't respond to loud, aggressive behavior. Approach them quietly and calmly for best results. Save your energy for the bedroom (see #11).
*I don't do bullies & seriously dislike mean people.
#6 Open Up
Geminis associate love with openness and honesty. The more you open up and reveal about yourself, the closer they will feel to you. Don't shy away from sharing embarrassing things about yourself, the more you reveal the closer they will feel to you.
*Extremely true about me & I'll share as much detail about myself. I might have regrets but I'm ashamed of nothing.
#5 Be Yourself
Geminis are usually understanding of people who are a little dirty/messy/nerdy/awkward, but they are very turned off by anyone who tries to present themselves as something they are not. Be honest, be yourself, let your natural qualities shine and they will appreciate you for it.
*I love genuine people. No need to introduce your representative to me.
#4 Ladies: Tone Down the Makeup
This goes along with the previous item about Geminis preferring people who can be themselves. If you are interested in a Gemini man, wear a little natural makeup or none at all; they want to see the real you.
#3 Get Artistic
Geminis tend to be very artistic and into art as well as artists. If you are not any sort of artist, you'd better be able to at least appreciate art to get in a Geminis good graces.
#2 Be Prepared to Share
Geminis tend to have lots and lots of friends and help everyone around them. Don't expect them to spend time with you 24/7. You will likely be sharing them with a large network of family, friends, and co-workers. If you are important to them they will spend the most time with you, but they won't give up their other social commitments entirely.
*Im friendly & enjoy meeting new people. I have no room for jealous friendships (men or women)
#1 Learn to Keep A Secret
Not only do Gemini's want you to open up, but they want to open up to you as well. You'd better be able to keep their confidence though; betray their trust once and you'll probably lose them forever.
*For the most part, I trust until given a reason not to. I have a tendency to tell all 'my' business probably bcuz I haven't much to hide. Lol
Will be nice if we get that far lol
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