I am a passionate, open and expressive woman who enjoys the company of like-minded people that can hold their own in a conversation. I love how stimulating and relaxing conversing with someone can be if the vibe is right. Chemistry is powerful and undeniable, it either exists or it does not. It is organic, and can't be forced or faked. I am genuine and do not have time for anything less than.
I did not join POF for random hookups, rather to get acquainted with someone who I may have interests in common with and can vibe with. Some people seem to feel like they have free range to be disrespectful and say or do whatever they please because they are online and that is just not the case. I have to be attracted to someone before considering being physical with them...
With that being said, attraction is a combination of physical appearance and mental stimulation. Good personal hygiene is essential and being comfortable with yourself with a sense of style is key to peaking my interest. If you are not assertive and confident, messaging me is futile. If your overall personality exudes overly aggressive, passive and passive/aggressive behavior, that is a sign that you have some issues to work on within yourself, just saying.
I strive for balance as much as possible. To me, it represents a middle ground between the extremities of life that causes drama and instability. I love being active and keep myself busy so when I lounge, it is warranted. I am driven, ambitious, head strong and surely not meek. Basically, a whole lot of woman that wants someone that is able to handle and compliment with their presence, intellect and good sense.