I am a Texas native, born and raised here. I am 40 and divorced, no kids, nor can I have any. I tend to be extremely sarcastic, when appropriate, so you must be able to handle that and hopefully give some of it back. I suppose I could put on here that I like to exercise and keep in the best possible shape, and all that other corny stuff in most ads, however I prefer to be straight forward. I do try to eat healthy but like most everyone else.... I do cheat and have that burger or fries if the craving hits me hard enough. I am somewhat of a homebody that is seeking someone who can bring a bit of excitement into my life. I am looking for someone who likes to enjoy spending time with their other half, no matter what it is they are doing. It does not matter if it is sitting at home snuggling watching movies or a day at the zoo with the family and/or friends. I'm not into thrill rides or jumping out of planes. I do love to fish and camp....but not in the middle of the summer heat! I love to shoot pool, though I'm not the greatest, it is not a competition.
So I had my friends all get together and list how and what they thought about me. Here is what they had to say:
"You are a very strong woman"
"Tired, Worried, Overwhelmed, Sick, Smart, Strong, Funny, Caring, Cat-lover, Sassy, Friend, Photographer, Sexy, Hard-worker, Smile-creator, Cook, Animal-lover, Goofy..."
"You are Rachelle!!!"
" Loving caring"
"You are one hell of a woman and a cat lover to boot"
"You are Rachelle. Unique and loving and thoughtful of others. You make me laugh, you make me smile, you are there for me, you are my friend!!!"
I think they are being generous, but its all good! :)
Ok, so what am I looking for? It is simple, I want someone who is looking for their soul mate, a best friend, and partner in life's adventures (yeah I thought that was pretty corny myself). I am NOT looking to be your: booty call girl, your sugar momma (hahaha), your friends with benefits girl, or your mommy. I am, however, looking for someone who knows how to treat a woman, MUST have a romantic side and is willing to give a shot at what might be "it" for them. It would be great if you could sweep me off my feet with a great smile and prove to me that they are not like the rest of the creeps out there.
With all that said: I believe in 100% honesty in both myself and my partner. If you are unable to understand, deal, or feel compassion for others... please do not waste my time. I do not play games and do not appreciate games being played with my emotions. I'm a good person (or so I have been told) and I am just looking for that other good person out there that will love me for who I am and not try to change me. I would never try to change you. I have a huge heart and am probably one of the most caring people you will ever meet.
Guys who are rebel against showers, live with their parents, have no job, have no desire to get a job, drama llamas, partiers, drug users...need not apply. If your profile says you do not smoke...please do not smoke.
Please... if you are just looking for sex and can not hold a conversation like a normal person...please just move on. I can get sex.... I am looking for someone that I can talk to also! Thanks!!
I wish guys would stop judging books by their covers without ever reading the first chapter. Some books are truly amazing but you wont know till you break the binding to find out!