****** if your looking to get laid - I am not the one your looking for ****** okay let me just say if you don't have a picture then don't email me - I will not respond - you see who your talking to I should have the same opportunity -- I have one more request please don't email me if your under 40- I am not looking for men in that age group- with that said .so now ... ..Hi. I am looking for that someone who can light up a room. A gentle yet caring man who has a sense of humor, who can make me laugh. I think laughing is important and makes the tough times go smother. I'm not looking for sex I'm looking for a friendship that may lead to something better- I don't like people that yell or think they can get what they want by raising their voice--- thats not my deal. I am looking for someone who enjoys going out to dinner, going to the beach, hanging out, going to the movies, meeting friends, dancing, walking around the city, just things that are laid back and sometimes over the top---- being together is most important to me. If you'd like to get to know me feel free to drop a line.