firstly let me say that i'm not a paying member, so the way to get my attention would be to message me. I grew up in S. Calif. and relocated to the Portland,OR. area where i went to school while working as a youth counselor, and retired as an adult parole/probation officer. I moved to Maui and lived there for 4 years. I came to Phoenix ( Ahwatukee ) in 2004, and downsized, for a simple,easy lifestyle. I play as much golf as possible. I ride my motorcycle. I take my dog to the park daily. I like to eat out, I listen mostly to 60's music ( Dylan, CSN&YOUNG, Loggins and Messina, Donovan, Byrds, etc...). I'm much more of a day person than a night person. I'm a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy, haven't had a tie on since I retired....no wait, i had a to go a wedding awhile back. I'd like to meet someone in the area that is on the same page. 3 things I can live w/o...tats, piercings, and bible thumpers, however, i do believe in the easter bunny, the tooth fairy, and santa clause. If you're just lonely and want to type the rest of your life, PLEASE go play elsewhere. Just like the rest of the internet this site is full of spammers...don't believe anything you hear, and only half of what you see. If you're so shallow that you start your profile off with "I'm beautiful and sexy"...skip me. If you're "low maintenance" and go on to list 2 dozen places you want to travel to, and all the things you want...skip me. If your interests/hobbies are dancing, traveling, shooting guns, fishing, drag races, shooting pool and drinking beer,and other redneck things, I didn't grow up doing those things. If you're illiterate and can't spell or form a sentence...skip me. I wonder why so many women post old, old pics of themselves when they were young. I assume they want us to know that at one time they were attractive, which has nothing to do with today. narcissism and shallow aren't the least bit attractive. what you'll get for that is likely exactly what you don't want. go see your shrink and see if he/she can help you find reality. another thing that is stupid is that most women write long paragraphs that read like a cheesy romance novel. BARF !!!! question: is there anyone here that would rather have dinner and a glass of chianti than shoot pool and drink piss (beer)? I find it interesting that people say they have a degree, one in particular that says she has a graduate degree, yet she can't spell, she must have received her degree from sears and roebucks. sweet dreams are made of this, who am i to disagree, i traveled the world and the seven seas, everybody's looking for something...some of them want to use you, some of them want to be used by you, some of them want to abuse you, some of them want to be abused....
coffee, tea, or me, in any order. also, if you want to talk, please message me. i'm not a paying customer, and the 71 people that apparently wanted to "meet me" are lost in cyberspace somewhere. all these sites are filling up with spam/fakes...i get messages from them 2-3 times daily. the majority of women on here are looking for something they won't find....and they wonder why. there are those well-known words that many of these women should add to their profiles: "i'm a loser and i'm not what i appear to be". i'll keep adding to this as i think of profound ( or not so profound ) observations,when i'm bored. so many of the women here say they want someone with a sense of humor, and no one night stands. i wrote one and said "no one night stands? how about two night stands...one on my side of the bed and one on your side of the bed?" apparently she didn't find the humor in that. here's another fun fact for all you women that say you're a one man woman and would never cheat. i'm not suggesting you say you like to cheat, however it is meaningless to say you don't. research shows that women cheat/have affairs at the same rate as men...there is no difference whatsoever. religion, community status, etc... have no baring on the stats. when asked how they get out of the house to meet with their lovers, some have no problem at all because their husbands are out of town on business a week or two a month, or go hunting/fishing, with their buddies...but the vast majority say they tell their husbands they are going shopping. so...if you're a frequent shopper i'm not your guy...lol. there must be at least one here that lives near me, is near my age, and is realistic rather than looking for the same thing you were looking for in high school. if you're hiding, come out, come out, wherever you are. have you noticed that the same people are on here forever? some leave for a brief period because they met someone, but are back soon. does that tell you anything? i almost forgot...those of you that send naked pics to every guy you talk to should find something else to attract attention, like maybe a personality? another option would be to advertise on backpage and at least get paid for it. seems like a good time to add to this, so, please tell me there is someone on here w/o mental health issues that haven't been addressed. update: i think the spammers are taking over this site. i had no idea there were this many women on the planet with no car, no education, nowhere stable to live, on public assistance of some sort, and are looking to be rescued by someone with their you know what together...as though a guy with his you know what together would be interested in someone who doesn't. try animal rescue, maybe someone will pity you and is desperate enough and take you home. i love the selfies women take when you can see the room behind them, and junk piled everywhere, so you can see what a pig they are at home.