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This POF website is so hilarious..
I find that it is truly just a "HOOK UP" website and that's fine.. Nothing against that.. I get it.. I signed up for it in hopes for something different, something more genuine. But the more I interact, the more I understand.
As a man, speaking from a male's perspective. We jump on the site, see a number of beautiful faces and regardless of anything else interesting you have to offer. We immediately attempt to interact with you ALL. Rather a short message; "Hi", "Hello" "oh you cute" or other messages rather interesting or creepy (ugghh). Some genuine and some not so much (insert dic pic lol).. But honestly for most dudes, it doesn't matter if YOU respond back or not. What matters from the typical male's perspective is merely WHO responds back, or not. Nothing matters until we have your attention and in certain scenarios such as the forementioned, most men will keep trying until they have your FULL attention. Rather it's through good conversation or a response to a dic pic. Most guys don't care either way (lol I'm just being honest here)
The opposite is true from alot of women's perspective, which causes the theory in sites like this to be so screwed up. indefinitely...
A woman's profile will consist of (from my own observation); Main pic, being her most youthful glamorous fun-filled pic, contrived of a timeline of her younger years to what she may look like to date (if even that). Followed by a bio of her bias "Don't waste your time if you're a typical guy" montage. A few "Don't think we gonna hook up" or "I'm not that type of girl" spill. And some more, really deep down inside; "i'm really just a selfish b!tch", sort of antics... (Not all of you, but more than many)
These are the common interactions from sites like this that f*ck up the purpose of having sites like this to begin with...
The dude doesn't give two shits about your inner thoughts because he's already developed an "I'll smash that" mentality off of your main pic which is usually a pic of you from ten years ago.. Meanwhile, midway through your profile you so valiantly care to mention "who's going to read this anyway" OHH MY GOODNESS do you even know how counter intuitive you sound by mentioning it..!!!
LOOK... If you're just here to find some rando douchebag to come fulfill an unnatural void of your own insecurities, smash and be gone.. Keep up the good work, you're doing a good job. But PLEASE stop complaining about your inbox being overloaded with endless douchebaggery. Clearly you enjoy the attention.
If you are looking for something more genuine in the end. I advise you stop following the thot guidelines and weed out the weak. Be more responsive to someone who shows interest and first and most importantly, analyze your own insecurities within yourself, Be open and honest with yourself first if you expect a man to be 100% open and honest with you as well... I could go on about this but I'm not here to rant. Just being honest with what I've evaluated so far and I can only hope to open the eyes of anyone that's real... That's all I have to say about this topic for now, but I am always open to discussion... Otherwise HAPPY FISHING!!!
"Oh and by the way, I don't send out random dic pics, so don't worry. I usually charge a fee for mine hahaha jk
As of lately, I have become a bit more open to the idea of a relationship. I certainly fancy the single life and though I value my independence.. I am fully in a mind state to truly endure having someone ultimately amazing by my side during my journey of complete royalty. I'm not looking to rush into anything but I am interested in meeting someone new who uniquely intrigues me overall. Most people who appear common at all angles tend to bore me. However, something about YOU that may bore others, may very well fascinate ME.. So never count yourself out. I'm an Aquarius, so I tend to find interest in things most people overlook and/or take for granted. I'm pretty genuine, open minded and honest. Sometimes sarcastic and witty but I find it humorous and more so informational. I'm so laid back and easy going. I like people to feel comfortable being who they truly are around me without worry; Silly, goofy, nerdy, adventurous, quiet, straight forward or wild... As long as your mood is positive, we'll get along fabulously...
In all honesty, I'm just looking to someday spend the rest of my life with the one woman I could consider my BEST FRIEND and that's just how I see it...
Here are a quick FIVE things I find interesting, if you relate or not...
Game of Thrones (books & show)
Music is my Passion (I enjoy everything by the Weeknd)
the UFC and MMA in general
Comedy Movies (including Stand-up)
Photography & Videography (Art in general)
Computers, Gaming & Technology
Oh and I love to travel..!!
And that's just a little bit about me to get us started. Anything else, I'm open to discussion...
"Desire is the key to motivation, but it's determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal - a commitment to excellence - that will enable you to attain the success you seek." -Mario Andretti