So, if I added you a favorite, it was not becuase I think "Yeah,...be happy I added you." Nooo that's douchy. The reason is that I have tried to send you a message, and I do not proactively do that too often, but POF said "nooo, you can't message this person...go for a match instead." Yet POF had you as one of my matches. So POF is bi-polar. I get it though, Maybe it's my age, which bites becuase the best range is for women in their early 30's, Energy levels and things like that are matched better.
ANYWAY, I love witty smart asses....seriously, if you can think quickly, like improv quick, are up late up night but still have to get up early, find yourself randomly singing Disney soundtracks or old TV theme songs for no reason, are really smart, but not everyone is aware of this, then geeeeez. you are really strange!
And the exact person I am looking for...hope we are attracted to each other...because you do need that. But I am starting to lose hope you exist. So please let me know soon, dating sucks...I just want to get to the next phase of my life. Bonus if you think a house in St. Thomas or in that general area sounds awesome. That is where I may want to move in couple years. Not set in stone, but it certainly looks good right now.
I don't do well with fake people...at all. I am who I say I am and don't need a facade to hide behind. I am the same guy on the first date that I am after we have been together for 5 years.
One last thing is that I am in my second year in my PhD program. So my free time has been sliced down quite a bit. But I can always make time for a good person. :)
The first date should be something light and variable. I think a true spark can only be identified in person. That moment where we have that nervous first contact where it's awkward or completely natural. If the latter happens then the first date will be fine, and the second date will be incredible.