I have found that the most compatible age range for me is with women in their early 30's, Based on energy levels and things like that. I love witty people ....seriously, if you can think quickly, like improv quick, are up late up night but still have to get up early, find yourself randomly singing Disney soundtracks or old TV theme songs for no reason, are really smart, but not everyone is aware of this, then geeeeez. you are really strange!
And the exact person I am looking for...we need to Ben attracted to each other...because you do need that.
I don't do well with fake people...at all. I am who I say I am and don't need a facade to hide behind. I am the same guy on the first date that I am after we have been together for 5 years.
One last thing is that I am in my second year in my PhD program. So my free time has been sliced down quite a bit. But I can always make time for a good person. :)
The first date should be something light and variable. I think a true spark can only be identified in person. That moment where we have that nervous first contact where it's awkward or completely natural. If the latter happens then the first date will be fine, and the second date will be incredible.