Before I start I'd just like to give a BIG F.U. to all the scumbag, horndog, disrespectful guys, who have made it increasingly difficult for decent, sincere, good guys too be taken seriously, when we send inquisitive, non-sexually motivated, contact msgs to women, here on this site. Men are definitely doing something wrong here. There is a staggering number of gorgeous, intellectual, intelligent women here on POF, and a lot of them have pictures of themselves with guns, and I don't blame them. There I had to get that out, and I believe it is a completely warranted statement.
Although this is the new standard to meet people, I believe that something is lost in the human element (sound of voice, body language, definitely laughter)by not socializing one to one in person. As a result, I know that this medium of meeting people, cannot show all a persons qualities, so I try to take that into account when interacting with someone here. The English language has way too many meanings for things, so written msgs cannot convey, a person's tone of voice and body language, which are just as much a part of the meaning of the words.
About me, etc.:
-Obviously, as my opening statement shows, I call things as I see them, and usually I am the person taking a responsible stand for those who can't or won't, when something is not just or fair.
-I don't have a "type of woman" I generally go for, as I believe that is close minded, and I believe if I rush, or try too hard to find "the one for me" they never seem to be around. Instead I try to take an open minded, non-judgmental, patient approach, so I can see through crowd to the person staring at me from across the room.
-I can accept that we both had lives before we met, and those experiences, have made us what we are today. So I'd prefer you can accept that too, but in the event you still have an obsessed ex, get a restraining order, they're free, besides I only want to meet you.
-Polite and respectful, everyone should be.
-I'm looking for a person who is comfortable in there own skin. Meaning your profile is 100% true and you are not a person who is constantly concerned with your hair, nails, make-up and brand of your clothes. Natural, genuine beauty is far more attractive to me, then having the latest L.V. bag, bejeweled fingernails, duck lips, and two peacocks for eyelids. There is nothing more sexy and alluring than being intriguingly mysterious, but genuine, and true to yourself, no matter what your shape, size, age, race or color!
-I am creative, compassionate and receptive to others needs and emotions. I will always, willingly, pick you up when you are down and would walk, barefoot, to the end of the earth, for the one I love, if that's what it takes!
-I really have a thing for a woman with big beautiful eyes, always have, so if I'm complimenting you on that, more than likely, that was what attracted me to you in the first place. Piercing blue, pale green or brown eyes can melt me, light grey eyes will make my heart stop (please call 911, thanks). Most men look elsewhere first, which I think is just plain rude.
-Honest, cos dishonesty sucks,hurts and is just downright low! It's a poor way to start.
-A good listener who respects other people's opinions/ criticism and sees the value in using those things to better oneself. There can be more than one way to do things.
-Quick Witted/Humorous/Sarcastic and sometimes I can have a rather twisted sense of humor
-Analytical/Observational and a Leader, never been much of a follower (Bejeweled Way Too Small T-Shirts, on a man,are you F@*#ing kidding me / Ed Hardy or TapOut gear, can I get a "Hell NO"/ I only know those brands because I know that, any posers who wear them, are the target of a ridiculous running joke!)
-Perfectionist, when I apply my self to something. What I do I do right, "Perfect practice makes perfect". Your work speaks volumes about your confidence, integrity, and reliability.
-I hate U.F.C. and all the muscle-head, over compensating for their lack of male anatomy stupidity that goes along with it. Those guys are already big and dumb, and if they're not, isn't the last thing they need is punches to the head?
-I'm a Musician/Actor who has sung in several bands (would love to sing to you), it has afforded me the luxury of playing in front of many different people, in many different places.I am also a former Golf Professional.
-I like many genres of music, except Dub-step. I would guesstimate that I know the words to 5000+ songs and I can admit I am an MP3 hoarder, haha.
-I am quite Tattooed and look very much like a musician(don't judge this book by the cover! I'm totally the opposite of what most people expect and usually they are pleasantly surprised by my polite and chivalrous nature. Despite that, at first glance I could make a parent nervous). If you want to ask me about them that's ok, please go ahead, but there is way more to me than that. The word Tatts/Tatties/Ink bugs the s!*t out of me and it bugs me when I hear "Nice Tatties Bra".
-I don't have a PHD but I am far from unintelligent.
-I generally look much younger than I am, and thank God for that, my profession (musician) can literally kill you or age a person beyond their years. I took heed, a long time ago, not to dance with the Devil, he is a lousy dance partner, he's always stepping on your feet.
-I do not go on Facebook. I have an account from promoting my music but I have signed in twice in the last 8 months. I have managed to keep in contact with those I care about my entire life without the assistance of a website. I am a firm believer that people deserve a level of privacy Facebook steals, not to mention the time you could be using to do something constructive.
-I know I could face serious persecution for this, but I have absolutely zero interest in hockey
-Courteous and will respond to your message because it's just the way I am. I'm not into cruelty in anyway just honesty. If you made it this far, I must have interested you in some way, and like my headline says "honesty is the only policy" (so everything above is exactly that, 100% true), so don't be shy and send me a msg. Thanks C.