Shadelm: I love that I'm PERFECTLY IMPERFECT
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Washington, District Of Columbia
29 year old Female, 5' 9" (175cm), Christian - other
Black Gemini with Black
Shadelm wants to date but nothing serious.
Some University
Film/TV Junkie
Administration Specialist

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious

About Shade'
I have this saying, "A true dream will chase you until you start to chase it". That is pretty much the current theme of my life. I recently decided to leave the corporate world and go full force after my dreams of writing and theatre. Whatever I do, I want to make a difference. I am a Christian, I'm not perfect and God is still working with me. I'm big on one's personality because it goes a lot further than one's looks. I value family and friendship. I think laughter is the cure to many things, I love to laugh. I love listening to music.... All kinds of music but not a fan today's hip-hop. Im easy to get along with and just a girl who wants to live and not exist.

I think Martin was one of the best sitcoms ever. Every now and then...I will watch episodes of Martin all day!!

I am NOT your ride or die chick. I have questions. Where are we riding to and why I gotta die? Can't I just be your "Call me later..stay at home" chick?

Yes, Im a woman. I push doors that clearly say PULL. I laugh harder while trying to explain what I'm laughing at. I walk into a room and forget why I was there. I sometimes count on my fingers in Math. I tend to hide pain from loved ones. I say it's a long story, when it's really not. I cry more than people think. I care about people who don't care about me. I try to do things before the microwave beeps. I listen to you even when you don't listen to me. And a hug will always help. Yes, I'm a woman!!!

If your PROFILE pic is of you and another guy....please do not send me a message. If you have any pics where you are trying to expose your "private areas", please do not send me a message. Also, I'm tall for a woman and I like a guy who is taller than me. I prefer 6 feet and up..Thanks in advance :-)

Now that I've been on here for two weeks...I officially have POF pet peeves.

1. The whole taking a pic in the bathroom mirror with nothing but a towel on is...umm....enough of it already....especially when the reflection of the phone is blocking your face.

2. When I send someone a message and they don't respond...guess what I do? MOVE ON. I don't take it personal..I move on...what I DON'T do is send them a follow up message, followed by another message. People act as though the word "ignore" is new to the English language. We all know when we are being ignored...just accept it.

Okay I'm done for now...but I'm sure I'll be back....sigh

First Date
NOT THE MOVIES...somewhere where we can talk and get to know each other ;-)