PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND UNLESS YOU ARE WILLING TO EXCHANGE PHONE NUMBERS AFTER A FEW E-MAILS.
****UPDATE: I had a time in the last few months that it seemed like the storm clouds were covering me up. I had seemed to have lost those I considered friends, and well I guess true friends wouldn't be so fickle. Now I am back in line, ready to go. I am currently looking for a job, but I know there is one somewhere! I am still a great guy, just read on.****
Hey ladies, I am a single white male, 33 years old in Oklahoma. I am 6'2 blue eyes and shaved head. I am very firm in my religious beliefs and they are very important to me. I am not saying I am perfect, just forgiven. I want someone who is also a strong believer and is willing to start something new.
Well lets see. . . I love football, I am a huge OU fan, and my Saturdays during the fall has a 4 hour gap that is usually filled with sitting in from of the tube and wearing crimson and cream. I am also a Raiders fan, but I rarely watch NFL because of church and other things. My favorite color is green, although I have a favorite shade (black). I wear a lot of black. I am a big guy and I make no bones about it, black is slimming :). . . What am I looking for? WOW. . thats a big question. I am looking for my "rib". That includes someone who is into the same things as I am. My best friend, my help mate, my lover, my completeness. I heard a minister say that women do not need someone to complete them, because being taken from man they are complete in themselves, but a man needs a woman to complete him. Someone I can laugh with, cry with, and get mad with and then make up with. I do not want someone who is going to be focused on the finer things in life, but will realize the finer things in life is being with the one that consumes them. I want to finish a book I started, and would even like for my future spouse to help with that (possibly). I want someone to grow old with. I want someone to be there if I have a bad day, to rub my shoulders and whisper in my ear that they love me and that God still loves me. I want someone to hold me when we are just chilling out at home and will offer their lap to me. I want someone to be the mother of my children if God wants us to be parents. I want to be their man and them my woman. I want someone to share everything with.
I wrote the following for my future wife:
"I am the guy who will move the hair away from your eyes and then kiss you, hold your hand in line at the mall in an attempt to make all the girls jealous. I would sing to you at random moments. I would let you sleep on my chest. I am a man who would get mad if someone said you were ugly or treated you badly. I would call you more than 3 times a day if I had to go away. I would listen to all the gossip you need to tell, and smile and agree with you just so you would smile. I would toss stuffed animals at you if you were acting goofy, and then kiss you as many times as there are stars. I would help you laugh at yourself and laugh at me, just so I could see the sparkle in your eyes when you are happy. I would put my hands around your waist and give you bear hugs in public to show the world how lucky a man I am to have a woman like you. I am the man who would have all my friends tired of listening to me because I could not shut up about you, and I would be a constant smile. I would be the man who would make out with you in the pouring rain. I would never be ashamed to say “I love you” in front of my friends, family or people I don’t even know. I would allow you to argue with me, then let you win so we could make up. I would kiss you on New Years or any other day, and in order for me to count stars with you, I’d just need to look into your eyes. I would stay home with you on a Friday or any other night, help you make dinner and then cuddle with you under the same blanket. I would say you are beautiful, but not to the point it sounds insincere. I would make you laugh like no one else could. I would be your best friend. And I would never break your heart, because you have mine."
It seems to me that dinner and coffee seem to be the most common suggestions. I am anything but common. I think, for me, a great first date would include some type of in depth discussion, or sitting at home watching a movie (I love horror movies) and talking about anything in general. I also feel that a place where conversation is allowed (unlike a movie theater) is a good thing.