I've read a lot of profiles on here and it seems many are looking for some pretty important and similar things in a match.
Honesty, fun to be around, drama free, similar interests, someone willing to commit and communicate with. I'm far from perfect, yet willing to give my best to who I'm with, be it a first date or dating or more, depending on where it leads, yet it seems at times what is in the profiles is far from what it takes to find a match.
Good thing I'm patient and willing to wait for someone willing to be real and reach out. Sometimes just be open to a great relationship is good enough, cause it may or not happen through this site.
Don't pass me by, might be a mistake :)
I like to keep it casual at first. Let's meet for coffee and see how well we connect. First meetings should be stress free, no pressures, no expectations and and showing up when planned is helpful :) Don't set a time to meet if you are going to cancel it (especially if you don't call).