I am a single mom with two boys that live part time with me and they are my world and will always come first and keep me busy with sports - baseball- but there is room for that special person. I am also a career woman who loves her job and enjoys what she does. I am looking for someone that shares the same beliefs that I have when it comes to relationships - trust, honesty, respect, companionship and eventually love. I believe in communication between two individuals and you cannot be in a relationship or get to know someone if you don't communicate.
My best friend describes me as a strong, independent, beautiful person inside and out who has a big heart ready to share with someone who is not perfect but perfect for me. I am shy at first but once you get to know me you will see that I am just a girl standing in front of a boy wanting to be loved too.
I don't do well with three items -jealousy, playing games or lying. I am not a jealous woman or insecure nor do I play games.
I am looking for a confident man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to say it. A man who wants to spend time with me, hold my hand, kiss my neck when no one is looking, send me a text in the middle of the day to just say hello, cuddle on the couch to watch a movie or go out to a dinner or have friends over for drinks and have fun.
What else am I looking for in a guy that I know exists (somewhere)....
1. Someone who doesn't talk about their ex all the time or poorly about her (we are all divorced for a reason, I get it).
2. Someone who talks about themselves all the time and has no interest in me, my day or what I have to say.
3. I am not materialistic and toys, homes and cars don't get me off - a secure and loving man does.
4 There also needs to be chemistry between us both outside the bedroom and inside. Kissing is very intimate to me and one kiss can make it or break it.
I take care of myself BUT I am not a yoga or Pilates nut! I laugh hysterically when every profile says "hiking, biking, walking, running, etc." - give me a break - I am all for physical exercise but just because we live in the bay area doesn't mean you HAVE to do these things in order to be attractive - just be honest.
So if after reading what I have wrote, still sparks your interest, send me an email and lets see where it takes us from there.
I am a fan of baseball and football as well as a good dive bar. A first date could include either seeing a game at the stadium or at a dive bar watching the game, talking and having a beer. If not a sports fan, then grabbing a cup of coffee and sitting outside on a park bench and getting to know each other will work too.