I am a single mom with two boys that live part time with me. I am also a career woman who loves her job and enjoys going to the office. I am looking for someone that shares the same beliefs that I have when it comes to relationships - trust, honesty, respect, companionship and eventually love. If you can't be in a relationship in which I am the only person (no serial dating) and/or cannot call and have conversations (the abuse of texting kills me nowadays!) then I am not the girl for you. I am not necessarily looking to get married again but if it is right I am not opposed to it. I also would like to have a relationship with someone who has already been married and has kids but if you haven't and don't and wont get jealous of my time with my boys then we could be right for each other. As long as you understand what it is like in my world! This is not a deal breaker either....But what is a dealbreaker - jealously and insecurity! I dont do well with either - I am not a jealous woman or insecure. I am confident that when you are out doing your thing that you are having fun doing whatever and when I am out with my friends that you wont call or text me over and over questioning who I am with or asking where I am.
I am not looking for a dad either for my boys as they have a great father who is a part of their lives and in fact we are really good friends and spend most holidays together and can sit next to each other at school and sport functions. However, having a partner to share ideas with, come home too, enjoy a glass of wine with, travel with, go to bed with and wake up in the morning with or to start a new family with me and my boys would be fantastic too!
I like to be outside the most but I can dress up nice when needed to for an evening out (and look great in a pair of jeans too!) I am independent and would like to remain that way but getting help from someone who cares about you and vice versus isn't bad either. To know me really though is to take me out and fire those questions away at me - I am not afraid to tell you about my past so long as you are interested in listening to what I have to say and you don't judge me.
What else am I looking for in a guy that I know exists....someone who doesn't talk about their ex all the time; someone who doesn't speak poorly about their own kids; someone who only talks about themselves and has no interest in me, my day or what I have to say. I also wont accept being put down or getting mixed signals either. A deal breaker is someone who doesn't chew with their mouth closed (I've seen what you are eating on your plate not interested in seeing what it looks like chewed). There also needs to be chemistry between us both outside the bedroom and inside. I also hope that you take care of yourself as well...I like to work out and take care of myself.
Dating is hard and putting yourself out there takes guts. So if you send me an email and I take the time to respond or if I am the one that intiates the conversation and you don't find me attractive or like what I wrote - be a man and let me know that I am not the one. Yes rejection is hard but it is also part of life.
So if after reading what I have wrote, still sparks your interest, send me an email and lets see where it takes us from there.
I am a fan of baseball and football as well as a good dive bar. A first date could include either seeing a game at the stadium or at a dive bar watching the game, talking and having a beer. If not a sports fan, then grabbing a cup of coffee and sitting outside on a park bench and getting to know each other will work too.
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