Please don't send "wants to meet you" notes. I don't respond. Tells me zip and you're likely reacting to pictures alone.
Feels like we put ourselves through enormous pain to avoid pain. What if we didn’t do that? What if we just told the truth? Not how much you love your dogs, the awesome vacation, or how you love to laugh more than anything - and other such shit. Rarely does a profile say, 'This is what I'm looking for, what I don't want, and here's who I am in a relationship.' That would so so ****ing handy. Risking is typically not easy/comfortable.
That said...Hi. Thanks for looking in. Getting off ion an honest note, I am very "kink-friendly".
Sometimes you meet someone, and it's so clear, on levels, the two belong together. As a couple...you just "work", you understand one another in love and are immediately 'partners in crime'. As much as possible don't settle. I'm here to better my odds.
I want the sort of girl who makes me feel alive, understood, jazzed by what flies between us. Together we work at getting our deepest needs met.
In the law of large numbers, I'm not likely to find the girl, the head connect, heart simpatico, and sexual compatibility around the corner. I really don't care where you are. While local is preferable, if there's a stunning CONNECT talking by phone, distance is a non issue for me. Two are simply a plane ride away. So on my side I'm looking for eyes and smile, words. If I'm too far just disregard me. Too much in life is mediocre, Love shouldn't be mediocre.
I'm down to earth, please be that as well. I'm humble about what I have, vanity isn't a problem with me: You be likewise.. I'm an open heart rather than guarded. Not looking for a girl w/ guarded heart, hard to get to know, healing from last attempt at love. You're just as easily jazzed as I. You make your relationship life's priority. Two dyed-in-wool romantics.
I'm psychologist in fourth year private practice and love my work. At times I feel guilty being paid well for what feels nothing like "work". I'm a moderate liberal, pro-choice. I don't see colour, rather how I'm treated and that's returned in kind. Down time. Spontaneous weekend vacation: maybe...getting out of town on my motorcycle for weekend, on the beach, discovery great restaurants, pizza & film...I'm easy. -
I love music: Dan Fogelberg caught my feelings in a song: http://youtu.be/rur1i8jFwRo
I've a dry sense of humour, I crack-up easily. Prefer small group of close friends to large crowd of those I don't know. Seems to me "soul-mates" aren't found out there. Rather, we find one there's magic w/ and "teach" each other how best to love us. Really strong communications, everything on the table...no resentments, no secrets. No bullsh*tor guile. Make sense?
I'm a bit of a gym-rat...staying fit feels great. Attracted to girls who spend some time working at fitness as well. Thin, slim, athletic, and curvy, are just fine. "Over-weight" won't work. style. I can amaze myself with cooking and baking abilities...often put together sans recipe, just intuitively.
You're bright, huge-giving heart, and love to a fault when smitten. Your one who gets "lost" in love. I've always had a note of dominant in my character, I won't do well with one who is aggressively wired, or self-oriented. I do best with one who recognizes a chord of the submissive in her hungers.
While walking, were I to push you suddenly against a light-pole, a crowd watching at a busy intersection, our eyes lock, I find your mouth with mine...the woman I'm looking for would slide her arms up my shoulders, lock hands behind my neck, and respond with her all to my kiss, staying with it,, until we're ready to get going. Unable to lose eye contact. Both more interested in the "jazzed" moment - than who might be watching. I don't care what others think, as long as we two are enjoying one another hungrily.
If I wake at 3 AM, weird dreams/song lyric, she who wants to listen while I vent my soul. I do the same well in return, I swear...it's that dyed-in-wool-romantic - I need to hear you talk of your dreams. I'm an excellent listener. Wrapped in one another - watching the moon dwarf the stars that dare to approach as the darkness gives way to the pearl and pink of dawn, a great time to cuddle-close and sleep again. I need the one who truly "GET'S ME" (I will "get you", inside & out as well. I think that's the "glue" of loving, and what keeps two together until one is no more.).
Thanks for not crapping-out on my thoughts. If what I've said moved you, resonates, write & tell me so. Ask questions, anything. I'm that open book.
If I've left you cold, I hope you find a strong, love...one to stay drunk on : :