You never know where love will come from.
Location - if there's chemistry, I really don't care where you are.While local is preferable, if there's a connect of the stunning kind, distance is a non issue for me. Two are simply a plane ride away.
Finding the one anywhere only stands chance in hell when both are willing to risk "honesty". Often talked about, infrequently practiced. Need to be up-front from the first mailing or what's point? At 32, I'm hungry to go long-term should "the" partner-in-crime/savvy-lover/absolute-best-friend present herself and we continue to age beautifully. Too many mediocre things in life, Love shouldn't be one.
Be past vanity. If you practice hard sarcasm, malicious type - not for me. I'm down to earth, please be that as well. You communicate well, what's in head and heart gets said - it's how I am. Open heart rather than guarded. You're the sort who makes her relationship, love, her life's priority (my lady & I are most important facet of my life, you'd be the romantic and of same mind.)
Getting one another intellectually, emotionally and sexually. Neglecting ANY facet of what makes a strong relationship, builds intimacy is absurd. I've some kink in my veins, hopefully you acknowledge you've got some as well.
I'm a moderate liberal, pro-choice. I don't see colour, rather how any one individual treats me. I live for down-time. Spontaneous weekend vacation: maybe...getting out of town on my motorcycle for weekend - riding until we lose daylight and a cozy bed&breakfast takes us into Saturday...or staying home with great food, film, and each other.
I've a dry sense of humour, I crack-up easily. I'm dyed-in-wool-romantic. Seems to me we don't "find" a ready-packaged "soul-mate", instead we find that one we connect with and teach the other how we can best be loved: what makes us feel safe, wanted/needed, well loved and truly understood. Lot of conversation and story telling there - but worth the investment I believe. Everything on the table, exquisite communications. Make sense?
I love to play...is your kid alive and well?
I'm a gym-rat and staying fit pays well. Not attracted to over-weight. Ideally you get to the gym now and then, eat smart and try and stay fit.
You're bright, huge-giving heart, and love to a fault when smitten. Your one who gets "lost" in love and are relationship/family driven. I've always had a note of dominant in my character, I won't do well with one who is aggressively wired, or self-oriented. She who keeps track of who said, 'I love you last'. Asking ALL your questions is smart. If still bruised from a past relationship, first find closure, start fresh when your esteem has healed.
While walking, were I to push you suddenly against a light-pole, a crowd watching on a busy intersection, we lock eyes, I find your mouth with mine...the woman I'm looking for would slide her arms up my shoulders, lock hands behind my neck, and respond with her all to my kiss, staying with it,, until we're ready to get going. Unable to lose eye contact. Both more interested in the "jazzed" moment - than who might be watching. I don't care what others think, as long as we two are enjoying one another hungrily.
If I wake at 3 AM, weird dreams/song lyric, she who wants to listen while I vent my soul. I do the same well in return, I swear...it's that dyed-in-wool-romantic - I need to hear you talk of your dreams. I'm an excellent listener. Wrapped in one another - watching the moon dwarf the stars that dare to approach as the darkness gives way to the pearl and pink of dawn, a great time to cuddle-close and sleep again. I need the one who truly "GET'S ME" (I will "get you", inside & out as well. I think that's the "glue" of loving, and what keeps two together until one is no more.).
This is long...but I wanted to provide enough information to allow you to easily pass me by, or feel my words resonate and can't wait to write. Thanks for not crapping-out on my pontificating. If what I said moved you, write me, tell me who you really are - smile. Ask questions, anything.
If I leave you cold, I wish you happiness,