Thanks for looking in. Please read my profile, if you don't you've no clue who I am, likely here for different reasons. A photo isn't enough...
Up Front: When vetting sexual compatibility - some women feel I can't, at same time, regard them as intelligent, emotional, playful and complete human beings, and ask sexual questions. Ignoring sexual compatibility is foolish. It makes for unhappy couples down the road...even divorce. I'm not here to get laid, rather to find a long-term relationship...perhaps
Location: Odds are I'm not likely to find "her" around the corner. I don't care where you are if you're the one. While local is preferable, if we seem to have it all, I'm going to reach out. Not here to waste our time. Hope that makes sense. Too much in life is mediocre, Love shouldn't be mediocre.
I'm both beach bum, and intensely invested in my work and love, and that's important in my life. I'm not vain; don't you be, deal? I'm an open heart, no guards, no barriers. Uninterested in a woman who is "hard to get to know', painfully shy, or healing from last attempt at love. Be just as easily jazzed and excited about a connect as I. Two dyed-in-wool romantics. That will be awesome.
I'm psychologist in fourth year private practice and love my work and my people, and I'm adamant about leaving my work at work, having time needed for my girl and I...a stunning relationship.
I'm a liberal, pro-choice. no guns, I don't see colour, rather how I'm treated and that's returned in kind. Down time: new restaurants, the beach (ah sleeping in the sand...), the gym, tennis (I'm pretty good), and whatever we two can dream up. Spontaneous weekend getting out of town on my motorcycle, or just pizza & film (film junky)...I'm easy.
This tune really speaks to my mood these days. Fogelberg caught my feelings in a song: http://youtu.be/rur1i8jFwRo
Dry sense of humour, I crack-up easily. Prefer small group of close friends to large crowd of those I don't care about.
Seems to me "soul-mates" aren't found. Rather, we find the "one", and "teach" each other how best we can be loved. That's exquisitely necessary info. Strong communications, everything on the table...no resentments, no secrets. No bullshit. We become "home" to each other. The BEST. You need to have and embrace a submissive chord in your nature, which compliments the dominant note in me. If you had, or hunger for a d/s relationship, and are hungry for all it holds. ..the love, trust, and commitment. ..talk to me.
Your one who gets "intoxicated" by loving intensively as I do, driving the intimacy to places I've no words for. You prefer rough over vanilla. Being placed against a wall, my hand tightly about your throat, locked in place, and hungry for what follows. ..should find a rainforest between your thighs. If you "get" weak simplyconsideringthis, be wired for kink in the most desperate way possible. Terribly so. Owning one another in an arresting love... is all you want. Well...yes there's more. Smile.
While walking, were I to push you suddenly against a light-pole, a crowd watching at a busy intersection, our eyes lock, I find your mouth with mine...the woman I'm looking for would slide her arms up my shoulders, lock hands behind my neck, and respond with her all to my kiss, staying with it,, until we're ready to get going. Unable to lose eye contact. Both more interested in the "jazzed" moment - than who might be watching. I don't care what others think, as long as we two are enjoying one another hungrily.
If I wake at 3 AM, weird dreams/song lyric, she who wants to listen while I vent my soul. I do the same well in return, I swear...it's that dyed-in-wool-romantic - I need to hear you talk of your dreams. I'm an excellent listener. Wrapped in one another - watching the moon dwarf the stars that dare to approach as the darkness gives way to the pearl and pink of dawn, a great time to cuddle-close and sleep again. I need the one who truly "GET'S ME" (I will "get you", inside & out as well. I think that's the "glue" of loving, and what keeps two together until one is no more.).
I recognize these words will speak to a relative few. All i need is the one girl who understands me, andlife can be stunning. If what I've said moved you, resonates, write & tell me so. Ask questions, anything. I'm that open book. Thoughts, comments, questions, observations, and opinions are welcome.
If I've left you cold, hopefully winter won't treat you as badly.
Be well - Joshua.