Hi. Thanks for checking in. If your profile is a sentence or two which tells me nothing, no matter how cute you may be...I've nothing to reference. Put a damn profile together? NO "wants to meet you" notes. I don't respond. Tells me zip and you're likely reacting to pictures alone.
Sometimes two meet and it's so clear, on many levels, the two belong together. As a couple you just "work"; you understand one another in love and are immediately 'partners in crime'. We all look for that.
Location: I'm not likely to find the girl, the head, heart, and "kink-friendly" composition around the corner. I really don't care where in the U.S. you may be. While local is always preferable, if you seem to be the woman I need, I'm going to reach out. I'm not here to waste our time, but to find "her". Too much in life is mediocre, Love shouldn't be mediocre. Being honest as I know how.
When referring to things sexual - god...some women feel I can't, at same time, regard them as intelligent, emotional, playful complete human beings. Ignoring sexual compatibility is foolish. It makes for unhappy couples down the road. Make sense?
I'm both beach bum, and intensely invested in my work and love, and that which is singular in my life. I'm not vain; don't you be, deal? I'm an open heart, no guards. Uninterested in woman who is "hard to get to know', or healing from last attempt at love. You're just as easily jazzed as I. Your relationship is life's priority. Two dyed-in-wool romantics. That will be awesome.
I'm psychologist in fourth year private practice and love my work and my people, and I'm adamant about leaving work at work, having time needed for a stunning relationship.
I'm a liberal, pro-choice. no guns, I don't see colour, rather how I'm treated and that's returned in kind. Down time: new restaurants, the beach (ah sleeping in the sand...), the gym, tennis (I'm pretty good), and whatever we two can dream up. Spontaneous weekend getting out of town on my motorcycle, or just pizza & film (film junky)...I'm easy.
I love music: Dan Fogelberg caught my feelings in a song: http://youtu.be/rur1i8jFwRo
Dry sense of humour, I crack-up easily. Prefer small group of close friends to large crowd of I don't know.
Seems to me "soul-mates" aren't found. Rather, we find the "one", and "teach" each other how best we can be loved. That's exquisitely necessary info. Strong communications, everything on the table...no resentments, no secrets. No bullshit. Honesty.
Your one who gets "intoxicated" by love as I do. I've always had a note of dominance in my character, and I do well with a girl who recognizes submissive in her nature.
While walking, were I to push you suddenly against a light-pole, a crowd watching at a busy intersection, our eyes lock, I find your mouth with mine...the woman I'm looking for would slide her arms up my shoulders, lock hands behind my neck, and respond with her all to my kiss, staying with it,, until we're ready to get going. Unable to lose eye contact. Both more interested in the "jazzed" moment - than who might be watching. I don't care what others think, as long as we two are enjoying one another hungrily.
If I wake at 3 AM, weird dreams/song lyric, she who wants to listen while I vent my soul. I do the same well in return, I swear...it's that dyed-in-wool-romantic - I need to hear you talk of your dreams. I'm an excellent listener. Wrapped in one another - watching the moon dwarf the stars that dare to approach as the darkness gives way to the pearl and pink of dawn, a great time to cuddle-close and sleep again. I need the one who truly "GET'S ME" (I will "get you", inside & out as well. I think that's the "glue" of loving, and what keeps two together until one is no more.).
Thanks for not crapping-out on my stream-of-consciousness profile. Sorry for length. If what I've said moved you, resonates, write & tell me so. Ask questions, anything. I'm that open book. Thoughts, comments, questions, observations, and opinions are welcome.
If I've left you cold, hopefully winter won't treat you as badly.
Be well - Joshua.