Thanks for looking in. Please read my profile. It'll likely tell you if we'vea nything in common at all.
Location: I've no idea where I'll find "her". Since I've no control over this...I don't care where you are if you're the "one". While local is preferable, if we seem to have it all, 'll reach out. I'm Not here to waste time. Hope that makes sense. I'm open. Looking long-term only. I'm in Evanston, IL., 1st suburb North of Chicago, on the lake.
I'm both beach bum, and intensely invested in my work and my relationship. I'm not vain; please don't be either. I'm an easily accessible heart, no guards, no barriers. If you're "hard to get to know', painfully shy, or healing from last attempt at love, we won't be a good fit. Be as easily jazzed and excited about a connect as I am.
I'm a liberal, pro-choice, equal pay, and not into guns. I don't see colour, rather how I'm treated and that's returned in kind. Down time: new restaurants, the beach (ah sleeping in the sand...), the gym, tennis (I'm pretty good), and whatever we two can dream up. Spontaneous weekend getting out of town on my motorcycle, or just pizza & film (film snob).
This tune really speaks to my mood these days. Fogelberg caught my feelings in a song: http://youtu.be/rur1i8jFwRo
I've a dry sense of humour, not terribly sarcastic. Sarcasm is generally "mean spirited humour - unsure why so many brag about their sarcasm.
Prefer small group of close friends to large crowd of those I don't care about.
Seems to me "soul-mates" aren't found. Rather, we find the "one" we sync beautifully with, and "teach" each other how best we can be loved. Requires real love, naturally occurring honesty, and trust. Strong communications, everything on the table...no resentments, no secrets. No bullshit. We become "home" to each other. The BEST. You have and embrace a submissive chord in your nature, which compliments the dominant note in mine. If you're oriented to d/s,hungry for all it holds (the love, trust, and commitment), write me.
While walking, were I to push you suddenly against a light-pole, a crowd watching at a busy intersection, our eyes lock, I find your mouth with mine...the woman I'm looking for would slide her arms up my shoulders, lock hands behind my neck, and respond with her all to my kiss, staying with it,, until we're ready to get going. Unable to lose eye contact. Both more interested in the "jazzed" moment - than who might be watching. I don't care what others think, as long as we two are enjoying one another hungrily.
If I wake at 3 AM, weird dreams/song lyric, she who wants to listen while I vent my soul. I do the same well in return, I swear...it's that dyed-in-wool-romantic - I need to hear you talk of your dreams. I'm an excellent listener. Wrapped in one another - watching the moon dwarf the stars that dare to approach as the darkness gives way to the pearl and pink of dawn, a great time to cuddle-close and sleep again. I need the one who truly "GET'S ME" (I will "get you", inside & out as well. I think that's the "glue" of loving, and what keeps two together until one is no more.).
I recognize these words will speak to a relative few. Being d/s oriented, and perhaps a note of the submissive to compliment the chord of dominant in my nature. All we need is to respect how we nurture the other, and have what's necessary to make one another feel loved and understand...at the deepest levels. Life can be stunning. If what I've said moved you, resonates, write & tell me so. Ask questions, anything. I'm that open book. Thoughts, comments, questions, observations, and opinions are welcome.
If I've left you cold, hopefully you'll have a fun Winter...
Be well and satisfied - Joshua.