Discerning_Lady: Awaiting the Perfect One for Me!
Non-smoker with A Few Extra Pounds
Dayton, New Jersey
39 year old Woman, 5' 5" (165cm), Christian - other
Black Gemini with Brown hair
Discerning_Lady is looking for a relationship.
Masters degree
Night Owl
Health Care

I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Prefer not to say
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? N/A Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 5 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

About Me
If you attempt to sample every piece of candy in the candy store you might just be missing out on that one good thing meant just for you...How much is too much? I'm Just Saying!


Really...? I think there are too many confused fish in this sea! Viewing many of your profiles I see your intent as:...not looking for a relationship...but you want the whole package; looking for a relationship but can not offer what you are seeking....and other sh*t...I am just saying...if you don't have anything to offer...how do you expect a woman to? It's just a question...

I am not here for games or to waste my time or your time. I am only interested in single men that are willing to communicate effectively in order to get to know me and allow me to get to know you!

If you do not have more then one recent (within the last 6 months) picture...please do not contact me.

Honesty is the best policy...please be honest about what your intentions are. I am to old...wait I think we are too old to be playing games! Really...if you are just looking for sex, or just want to exchange text messages...I am not the one for you. Believe me I am more then sure there is someone that is willing to go along with the nonsense! It is not me!

Remember there must be a mutual attraction both physically and mentally. So look at me and now look at yourself...what are your or should I say our chances of making a connection?

If you are kind hearted, have a strong work ethic, enjoy a good laugh, are spontaneous, have that swag, honest, respectable, motivated, open-minded, God fearing...feel free to contact me!

But on a lighter note....

I am....

Determined, but light-hearted professional. I enjoy spending time with friends and family, bowling going out to eat, comedy shows and dancing. R&B and Hip Hop are my music of choice, particularly Jill Scott, and Mary J, just to name a few. I would consider myself an inquisitive and social spirit.

Question: What about you would make my life different?...for the better of course....

Mail Settings
To send a message to Discerning_Lady you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age between 32 and 44.
Live in United States
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not do drugs
Must not be married